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My ex has come out of the woodwork to threaten me again. He says he’s going to take me to court and regain custody of our kids (he’s had supervised visitation for 7 years). He says he has a voice recording of a worker at the drug testing facility admitting that she falsified the results of his tests (he’s had over 15 positive drug tests at multiple facilities). He says he has proof of parental alienation, and that that’s grounds for an immediate custody change (his “proof” is my son simply saying he doesn’t want to see him anymore until he gets sober).
So I will rejoice, knowing that our total freedom from this man is right around the corner. Give them enough rope and they will hang themselves. He wants to take me to court with all of this crazy? Let’s do it.
I know better than to bring an action against him because I am a woman, and that would be “vindictive”. In a sane world I could use these texts to prove harassment. Instead, I will let him prove it himself. I will walk into that courtroom dripping with compassion for this man who is so clearly mentally ill.
I’ve seen it before. When a narcissist is losing control he will frame it as if YOU are. Never back down to their threats. And never, ever procreate with a scrote.
I'd be grounded right now, because modern courts DO aim for 50/50 even though mothers birth the children and do more work in general, but IF HE DOES, that means you need to start documenting. If he's only had supervised visits thus far, then they probably will give him more than that. That could look like video chats over the week and visits on the weekends. But crazy people get found out.