Imagine how different relationships would be if parents raised their sons with this mindset. Women wouldn't be stuck with grown man-babies.
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Oct 27, 2023
Men won't hold their sons accountable, because they want to be the "cool" parent, are highly homosocial and are too much of a coward to put another man in place. As always.
I’m glad she didn’t hit him because when you grow up hitting your kids, they’re just gonna hit you back when they’re grown. A 14 year old boy is strong enough to hurt his mother if he wanted to.
Yes, and it creates such a problem when they go to school. They won't listen to teachers, because they're used to pushing the limit until they get hit, and they know teachers can't hit them. So they push and push and push. They're not responsive to any other punishment.
It also creates a much bigger problem because it teaches them physical violence is an acceptable outlet for anger and frustration and an acceptable act in general.
How are you going to teach your child that hitting people is bad if you - yourself - are hitting them?
It's sad, but true, that if the boys father told him the exact same thing he would fall in line very quickly. It makes me so angry that kids kinda tune women out and listen to men right away. Mysogyny ingrains itself at a young age.
Boy moms are the worst, I wished more mothers behaved this way, Most male family members went to jail or on the verge of criminality, they are lazy, steal and have no aching feeling that they achieved nothing in life. only 2 stay on the right path as far as I know because they had tiger parents.
All boys need tiger parents, authoritive figures in their lives otherwise they turn out to be shit like the son of that woman.
14 is a bit late to start teaching responsibility, you should start much younger, if they are capable to do something on their let them do it even if they do it poorly or take a long time.
Exactly. Even a toddler can be taught to do small, age appropriate things like putting their clothes in the hamper (and even sorting it by color), hanging up used towels again, putting their trash in the bin or putting used dishes in the sink/dishwasher. Yes, you need to remind them (again and again) and keep an eye on it but teaching a child good habits and responsibility doesn't start when they are almost a teenager.
Men won't hold their sons accountable, because they want to be the "cool" parent, are highly homosocial and are too much of a coward to put another man in place. As always.
I’m glad she didn’t hit him because when you grow up hitting your kids, they’re just gonna hit you back when they’re grown. A 14 year old boy is strong enough to hurt his mother if he wanted to.
It's sad, but true, that if the boys father told him the exact same thing he would fall in line very quickly. It makes me so angry that kids kinda tune women out and listen to men right away. Mysogyny ingrains itself at a young age.
Boy moms are the worst, I wished more mothers behaved this way, Most male family members went to jail or on the verge of criminality, they are lazy, steal and have no aching feeling that they achieved nothing in life. only 2 stay on the right path as far as I know because they had tiger parents.
All boys need tiger parents, authoritive figures in their lives otherwise they turn out to be shit like the son of that woman.
This woman...
14 is a bit late to start teaching responsibility, you should start much younger, if they are capable to do something on their let them do it even if they do it poorly or take a long time.