Seeing a LOT of discourse among the incel set about how the older the mother is, the "older" the baby is DNA-wise and this will eventually "age the genetic pool?" No one seems to be able to cite these claims, but I was wondering if any science minded ladies have heard of this and could debunk or pro

My ex has come out of the woodwork to threaten me again.  He says he’s going to take me to court and regain custody of our kids (he’s had supervised visitation for 7 years).  He says he has a voice recording of a worker at the drug testing facility admitting that she falsified the results of his tes

In the ever-evolving social media trends, the emergence of the “Boy Moms” movement on TikTok has been both heartwarming and transformative. Challenging traditional gender roles and societal norms, this trend empowers mothers to teach their sons essential life skills such as cooking and cleaning. The

It's like deja vu all over again. Their father has had supervised visitation for over 6 years. Our court order specifies that all he has to do to have his normal visitation reinstated is to provide a clean drug test. He can't do it. Recently, one of my sons decided that he'd had enough. I got a

I’m considering having children on my own, through a sperm donor, but It's something I've never come to terms with. On the one hand, I fear how growing up without a father might affect my children, I also fear that they might resent me for not giving them a father. On the other hand, I can't stand m

What do you wish someone would have told you before you picked the father of your kid or before you had your kids? What advice would you give to women who are yet to be mothers? What do you wish you would have been prepared for? I find myself wondering what I would need to be equipped with befor

There NEEDS to be a nationwide discourse regarding the discrepancy in how family court judges handle termination of parental rights versus how they are handled in foster care cases. If I was not in the picture, the county would have stepped in and my ex would have lost his rights years ago. But

Is there anything that can break your faith in marriage more than having to deal with men and the way they behave when their wives aren't around? It is absolutely disgusting. They appear to be loyal husbands when together, but when the wife is away they come to complain about their dead bedroom

https://secretlifeofmom.com/mom-makes-son-apologize/?utm_medium=sJ8OTU&utm_source=liqsoc&lsid=migndu2mte Her 11 year old son was bullying a girl younger than him, so she matches his ass over to their house and makes him explain to the girls parents what he did. She also confiscated all of his elect

Hello all, It is Christmas time and my mom is a raging narcissist, so life is great right now. My parents are hosting a bunch of my younger cousins (all male, <13 years old). I am the oldest cousin (female, which I think is an important detail for later). Long story short, I was waiting in my m

I'm researching the above with the view of becoming pregnant next year. I can't believe how little I know about how my body works and biological reproduction in humans lol I know a few things but not everything. I'm struggling with what to tell any future kids about how they came into this world

Correct me if I'm wrong, I'm trying to figure something out... Women born 1978 -1988 are being fukd over as roughly child bearing years are 2003-2028. That leaves an older woman with approx 5/6 years to have her family. Bearing in mind a gap of 18 months to 2 years is needed between each baby for he

This article made my skin crawl. An excerpt: "We need to respect what these guys are doing, linking love and provision in a way that's meaningful to the child," Edin said. "The child support system weakens the child/father bond by separating the act of love from the act of providing." https://hub

It’s whats led some step-parents, especially step-moms, to take a new approach to bonding with and parenting their step-kids: the Nacho Kids Method, aka “not your kids, not your responsibility.” For example, say one of your step-kids isn’t listening to repeated pleas to take all of five seconds to

I saw a tiktok video recently, showing a baby at a restaurant, staring at a group of young women at the next table. Innocent enough, right? The problem is the captions by the mother, who took the video. Caption #1: (by the mother) When the son inherited his father's "wandering eye"... Already on t

I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately. And I always encourage any woman to really consider this option when she hasn’t had any luck finding a decent man but still wants to be a mother someday. Many, many of us have given up dating all together. We are content with our lives and are at peace. Ho

Imagine how different relationships would be if parents raised their sons with this mindset. Women wouldn't be stuck with grown man-babies.

TL, DR: my friend has a daughter with a scrote. Despite not being together anymore for a few years now, he's posessive. he still persues her from time to time and she still loves him, so it's hard for her to say no. How can she distance herself from him when they have a child together? *** This is

This is going to be a pretty long post.. but please bear with me as i have nowhere else to turn or vent to. My mom and dad had a pretty bad and miserable marriage. My maternal grandma raised my mom in such a way that she would remain quiet and sacrifice herself, just like she herself did througho

Queens, I'm miffed. My boys are very polite- they're kind to everyone, and I love that about them. When they were just 5 years old a little boy with Tourettes' grandma approached me and asked if they'd be willing to sit next to him on the school bus as he was getting bullied. She said her grands

This phrase kills me every time I hear a woman use it. She's catching up with a friend for coffee/taking a bath/doing some form of self-care "Oh I'm so lucky, Damian is watching the kids". You never hear a man say this phrase. He's playing golf "Oh I'm so lucky, Carla is watching the kids". TH

A lot of people suggested therapy, talking to him calmly as to how that kind of behavior is unacceptable, or putting him in youth groups for boys. For those of you who have sons, how would you handle this?

My dad has always had a slightly chauvinistic side that has just progressively gotten worse as he's aged. (Incidentally, he has not had a gf in over 2 decades. 🤔) He has high standards for himself and surprisingly sometimes exhibits some HV behavior (he thinks it's ridiculous how slobby millennial

Do you ever plan to kick your kids out at a certain age or charge them rent? Provided that my future kid is a productive member of society (is working and/ or in school) and not violent or a drug addict or something, as long as I can afford to do so and have the space, they will have a place to sta

https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2019/05/190513081409.htm And yet, women get told to have kids before 30.

Hey guys, so I was wanting tips/ advice as I go back into mommy and me groups, mom friends, etc. I have a tendency to give very similar advice/ opinions about the men in their lives 🙃. Do y'all have any resources for women especially in the United States since many of these women stay at home or a

My dad died when I was young so I don’t really remember him much. However the things my mum spoke about tonight when discussing their relationship blew me!! He did nothing!!!! He was an actual dick to her!!! She did everything for him. When she said he left her for 4hrs on a family occasion without

Supervised visitation is rarely granted in family court. It is the strictest form of visitation that exists. My ex has had professionally supervised visits with a "counselor" for four years. It took me nearly 2 years of court dates to finally prove that he was a danger to our children, so you can

I know there have been a couple podcasts addressing this but my situation is frustrating and unique. In FDS we can get a little wrapped up in the #yesallmen and I'm all for it but lol I am attempting to help raise the next generation of HVM. And because my pick-me self had a child with a NVM who abs

I don't know if this is allowed - copied straight from a reddit post: (Mods please let me know) I (31m) have a 4, almost 5 year old child. Unplanned child. Supportive families. Financially stable. Home owners. Healthy relationship. Since had a vasectomy. I see a lot of questions on these posts so t