Wanted to share this song cuz the lyrics almost made me tear up
All day everyday
therapist, mother, maid
nymph then a virgin
nurse then a servant
just an appendage
live to attend him
so that he never lifts a finger
24/7 baby machine
so he can live out his picket-fence dream
its not an act of love
If you make her
you make me do
too much labour
(note: I’m not promoting this, idk the creator, I just heard it on tiktok and teared up cuz of how true the lyrics felt)
Pickme narc grandmother was like this, Butler, servant, caregiver, baby machine so that her sons don't have to lift a finger, She had to work too. She had an abusive husband who forced her to have as much children as she could, She had 9 children and 2 died stillborn. She outlives him but it was bad. She was abusive towards me because not matter what she said I didn't want to be a man's servant. I wanted to make my own money and travel the world. Lara Croft was my only role model. Childfree, husband free and free of everything I don't want while Narc grandmother is uneducated and pretty much lived her life like a slave, never obtained a diploma in her life but thinks I'm dumb for not seeing having a man as an accomplishment.
I saw a video of a woman who was 97 getting her drivers license. Why? Because her husband didn't allow it when he was alive. She's 102 and said if she dies her grandson can have the car.
5 years of independence and happiness while before that she was chained up and I guess that's the life pickme's would have probably approved of.
Despite all of that I'm glad death silenced my grandmother for good because no matter how hard your life was it doesn't excuse you to be this way towards a girl with a different look at life.
Choosing a life for a child is wrong, your only duty as an elder is prepare the young ones to leave the nest, and the rest is their business but that goes against the pickme protocol because you need to be liked and chooses by men.
Yet I'm supposed to believe a man is what I need and I need to hurry up because the wall is undefeated, well the walls are closing in on them because Women don't need men.
Idk if the link worked
https://www.tiktok.com/@parispalomaofficial/video/7206353408054349061