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They tell on themselves. According to his logic men save $140k and moms gain nothing.
Never work for free taking care of their children. Build yourself up first and if you want a family, marry someone else who has built himself up and agrees to supply you with the help you need. Otherwise, better off single.
One of the thingy I love about my husband is how he says "there's no such thing as free childcare". He was listening to a Ted talk about how understanding divorce can help you marriage and a divorce lawyer talks about common issues in a marriage that lead to divorce and why it's important to discuss these things before you get married. Child care was one of them and she talks about how there's no such thing as free childcare. Even if a parent says home to watch the child it is by no means free because of what they would have to give up pay wise. And it's certainly not a savings. We are child free but I dunno it was just so attractive hearing him casually talk about it and not in a patting himself on that back kinda way.