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Hi everybody.
I am a newbie, just became a member. I´ve been reading a lot of posts, and listening to some podcast episodes. Not all of them, but I will be done with them pretty soon I feel like. Even if I am new, I already know that this community has changed me, and is furter going to change my life. A lot of the things I have read here, I have been thinking silently, but I never spoke up. I have felt like I was giving away free sex, and that I actually should be getting paid for the services I gave. I gave sex, because I wanted more, and the false promise was that I would get more. The LV man somehow got in his head, that I would actually ever benefit from having sex with him. I felt like a human fleshlight, and I pushed that feeling away. Because society tells me that women enjoy random sex just as much as men, and hook ups is a good thing, for both parties! And I shouldnt be a pussy feeling used. In my head, I´ve been thinking that I was this special snowflake, who was alone with these experiences. But F***, almost all of what I have read has been relatable. I have so much on my mind now.... This is not going to be my last post.
Seriously, thank you some much FDS.
It's life changing having this kind of clarity, self respect and self realization. I was a lost pickme drunk on limerance and romantic ideals about men. Then FDS gave me a proper smack in the head and everything clicked.
The truth is sometimes difficult but I prefer it over fantasy any day.
Welcome! We love that you're here. Just remember this is a process. You've got a lifetime of conditioning and trauma to undo, it's not going to happen quickly. Don't get discouraged, we've all been there.
FDS is the voice of sanity in an insane world. A breath of oxygen to help us throw off the poisonous atmosphere we were born into.
Welcome! It’s so great to have a community of like-minded women who can recognize bullshit for what it is!
I used to think I was special and strong and 💫not like other girls💫 for having casual sex, too. I used to drive for one hour to someone's place who never cooked dinner for me, never bought me a birthday gift, left me on read, didn't save my phone number and flirted with other females in front of me.
Glad you recognized your value. Now it's time to search for quality instead quantity.