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Choking is when you have broccoli stuck in your throat and “breath play” is a term that gaslights women (and society) into redefining strangulation as a kink. Strangulation is a crime. Strangulation is domestic violence. Strangulation results in femicide —the murder of women because they are women. Strangulation can statistically increase your chances of being murdered by 7-10 times. Strangulation can result in temporary and permanent physical damage to you as shown in the diagram below:
“A study found that 43 percent of women who were murdered in domestic assaults, and 45 percent of the victims of attempted murder, had been strangled by their partner within the year before.
If you’re lucky enough to survive being strangled, the odds of your partner doing it again are ten times higher. And even if you survive non-deadly strangulation, the effects can certainly be permanent.”
Source: The Training Institute on Strangulation Prevention
If a man lets slip in any way that he has a “choking” fantasy —block and delete immediately and never see or talk to him again. Tell any mutuals you know that he is unsafe.
If a man tries to strangle you or puts pressure on your neck or tries to suffocate you in any way during sex —immediately express you do not consent and kick him out. Cleary expressing you do not consent is important as many countries accept a “rough sex defense” that protects the man from criminal charges. Call the police and file a report for domestic violence and strangulation. Charges don’t have to be laid or laid successfully. The officers don’t need to believe you. The report is what’s important. Any future woman or employer can do a police record check and your domestic violence report will come up. It will directly effect his datability and employability.
Women must collectively not accept strangulation as a sex act. It is not acceptable for a man to be sexually aroused by the thought of murdering women. Femicide should not be a kink. Strangulation isn’t a kink, it’s sexually deviant pornsick misogyny. We must remind men it is a crime. We must ensure real world consequences for these sick men.
I can see the woman enjoying it, but any man that feels that way during sex is an immediate next. I don't care if you get more endorphins by adding danger or pretending you're raping me. Have a more boring orgasm or pick someone else, or be normal and healthy towards me.