Financial independence is the only thing worth fighting for is something I've learned because men aren't there to make you happy, you're either their emotional clutch or they settled down until they find their dream woman they can spoil after you support their career. Women who checked all boxes of a traditional wife, checked all the boxes of being a cool girl, free maid, pickme still got replaced after tolerating their bullcrap.
So why not do zilch for men but do everythign for yourself? Men will leave sooner or later so you can just accept it and let the fucker leave whenever he feels like it? If he does and you have done nothing for him then you've wasted nothing.
This ! I really needed to Hear this . You have to be totally useless to these men so when that fucker leaves you feel zero remorse as nothing was taken away from you . Also I never date anyone who says “ I want to build an empire with my future wife ” bs the minute he gets his empire is the minute the wife the builder is getting kicked out for a younger model who he cudt afford . Eye rolls 🥺🥺🥺
I feel the happiest when I only have to cook and clean for myself only, work for myself and work on myself. Men always use rare cases where women regret choosing their careers over the statistics that shows men give women more stress than children and women are the happiest when men leave. I always feel a great relief when men leave me alone, when some scrote wants to get to know me personally and keeps asking to get to know eachother each time I walk by I feel restless, so now I take a different route to avoid the scrote and I feel so happy. I find men exhausting, even with a brief interaction. Dudes with kids want to score a date but I'm not having a leftover pizza a baby mama ate from. She can have him or any other pickme. Better alone and free than be a bird with clipped wings in a sitation society wants for women, at home with a husband.
And you are right, if you do nothing for them you lose nothing when they replace you, the first wives suffer from ptsd and regret because their man left them after 20 years of sacrificing themselves for men and they are left behind empty handed.
I will not allow such a thing, When men want me they can have me but I'll be completely useless and I do nothing, I look after my own house and if he feels that if I don't cook for him then someone else will then good luck I won't lose sleep over his departure, the trash took itself out.
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Financial independence is the only thing worth fighting for is something I've learned because men aren't there to make you happy, you're either their emotional clutch or they settled down until they find their dream woman they can spoil after you support their career. Women who checked all boxes of a traditional wife, checked all the boxes of being a cool girl, free maid, pickme still got replaced after tolerating their bullcrap.
So why not do zilch for men but do everythign for yourself? Men will leave sooner or later so you can just accept it and let the fucker leave whenever he feels like it? If he does and you have done nothing for him then you've wasted nothing.