Financial independence is the only thing worth fighting for is something I've learned because men aren't there to make you happy, you're either their emotional clutch or they settled down until they find their dream woman they can spoil after you support their career. Women who checked all boxes of a traditional wife, checked all the boxes of being a cool girl, free maid, pickme still got replaced after tolerating their bullcrap.
So why not do zilch for men but do everythign for yourself? Men will leave sooner or later so you can just accept it and let the fucker leave whenever he feels like it? If he does and you have done nothing for him then you've wasted nothing.
And you are right, if you do nothing for them you lose nothing when they replace you, the first wives suffer from ptsd and regret because their man left them after 20 years of sacrificing themselves for men and they are left behind empty handed.
I will not allow such a thing, When men want me they can have me but I'll be completely useless and I do nothing, I look after my own house and if he feels that if I don't cook for him then someone else will then good luck I won't lose sleep over his departure, the trash took itself out.
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Financial independence is the only thing worth fighting for is something I've learned because men aren't there to make you happy, you're either their emotional clutch or they settled down until they find their dream woman they can spoil after you support their career. Women who checked all boxes of a traditional wife, checked all the boxes of being a cool girl, free maid, pickme still got replaced after tolerating their bullcrap.
So why not do zilch for men but do everythign for yourself? Men will leave sooner or later so you can just accept it and let the fucker leave whenever he feels like it? If he does and you have done nothing for him then you've wasted nothing.