People even other women get SOO triggered by us childfree women. It's because we can't be controlled by men as easily. We're an affront to the patriarchy.
These pickmes on IG and in real life kept attacking me saying feminism means freedom of womens choices!! Yet was so triggered by my childfree stance lmaoo.
Being single and childfree has brought me so much peace especially after getting sterilized so I can attest to this. I can have my sleep, decenter men and have disposable income. I don't ever have to worry about staying with an abusive man for the sake of kids or be dependent on one.
This! The feeling of safety and peace is immeasurable. For me it was also an 'I've got you girl' to my former 19 year old self who, despite at that time having nobody and nothing except an abusive arsehole of a 'boyfriend', managed to escape being babytrapped by the skin of her teeth (and sheer strength of will that she didn't even know she possessed). No man will ever, EVER have the power to put me in that violating, humiliating position ever again.
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Jul 17, 2023
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I got sterilized more than a month ago finally and I'm soooo relieved. Love that for us
I got sterilized in 2019 and woke up crying from the anaesthesia because for the first time in my life, I finally felt like my body belonged to me.
The nurses panicked and I had to assure them it was happy tears.
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Jul 17, 2023
Love this for us 🥂🥳
Does it strike anyone else as interesting how many articles there are about this though? It’s almost as if they can’t believe that women are happier alone than with some LV loser so they keep putting out more studies & articles & books. 😂
The single mothers I know have the shittiest lives imagineable. Some of them had children with abusive deadbeats who continue to abuse them through the court system, draining them emotionally and financially. Others have to deal with ex partners with whom the 'co-parent' on a daily basis hurling verbal abuse at them in person and via text. They send me screenshots and vent to me, and of course I lend a sympathetic ear because they are my dear friends. But every time I get a little bit sad about being single, or wonder if I made a mistake by not having kids (rare, but sometimes the thought does pass through my head), I think of my friends and their awful, sleepless and abuse-laden, financially impoverished lives and breathe a sigh of relief.
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Jul 17, 2023
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Honestly, the way things are today I think the donor route is such a smart idea for a woman who wants to have children. You can pick somebody who is intelligent, well educated, tall & good looking (so your kid inherits all that good stuff), without being attached to a man. I suspect many single woman with a child minus the baby daddy drama would be a similarly happy demographic.
"Mr Dolan added: 'Married people are happier than other population subgroups, but only when their spouse is in the room when they are asked how happy they are. When the spouse is not present: f---ing miserable.
'We do have some good longitudinal data following the same people over time, but I am going to do a massive disservice to that academic science and just say: if you are a man, you should probably get married; if you are a woman, don't bother.'
I do believe if men weren't such children and actually behave like a parent and do the raising together, doing his part in maintaining marriage then I'm sure married women would be the happiest. Whenever men leave their wives behind and they regret it the first they mention is why they miss their wives, not because they love them so much but because they cook and do everything in the house for them.
This is why it is so important that IF I were to get married/date, it absolutely needs to be with a man who adds value to my already amazing childfree and single life. Otherwise, what seriously is the point? I don't want kids, so it's not like I need to settle with some scrote before my biological clock runs out. There really is no benefit to having most men in my life, though I do sometimes miss making out with them 😅
Are you me? 😂 I agree with all of that! I am giving up looking though . All I can find are dads or duds. Often , they’re both! I just wish I could find a compatible CF man !!!!!
Seriously!! I love making out but I’ve had terrible luck with men who, after a certain point in the relationship, absolutely will not make out with me anymore, they just want oral and penetration 🙄. I miss kissing sometimes but I also miss kissing when I’m in a relationship lol so…what is the point.
49 yr old, single and childfree and I’m living my BEST life! Been married twice and so much happier living alone! I’m still dating my second ex. We just aren’t married and don’t live together. Much happier this way!
Net worth $1.2M including paid off, adorable cottage remodeled just the way I want it including extensive garden, home office and home gym. All the money I want to spend on my dogs and cat.
Great family, great friends, awesome job.
The patriarchy HATES me!! I’d be burned as a witch 400 years ago for the audacity to be independent and focused on women friends, garden and animals.
I’m leaning into the witch aesthetic! 🧙♀️I just need a pet owl 🦉I already have a cat 🐈⬛ and bat 🦇house!
You are my hero! That net worth is insane! So happy for you.
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Jul 17, 2023
Thanks for sharing.
As a 30-something single, child-free woman, I hope this is true, but I don't know if I can believe it.
Sure, I'm much happier than an abused single mom, but I don't know if I'm happier than a happily married mom or a childfree woman who's in a relationship.
Yeah, but boy are those happy married / partnered women rare. I don't know too many. And of those I know, most of them would be just as happy single because their lives are good as is.
As they keep stating "we'll change our minds someday" even scrotes my age are starting to sound like old men from when I was a teen, they all know it's a glorified oppression tool.
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People even other women get SOO triggered by us childfree women. It's because we can't be controlled by men as easily. We're an affront to the patriarchy.
These pickmes on IG and in real life kept attacking me saying feminism means freedom of womens choices!! Yet was so triggered by my childfree stance lmaoo.
Being single and childfree has brought me so much peace especially after getting sterilized so I can attest to this. I can have my sleep, decenter men and have disposable income. I don't ever have to worry about staying with an abusive man for the sake of kids or be dependent on one.
Love this for us 🥂🥳
Does it strike anyone else as interesting how many articles there are about this though? It’s almost as if they can’t believe that women are happier alone than with some LV loser so they keep putting out more studies & articles & books. 😂
The single mothers I know have the shittiest lives imagineable. Some of them had children with abusive deadbeats who continue to abuse them through the court system, draining them emotionally and financially. Others have to deal with ex partners with whom the 'co-parent' on a daily basis hurling verbal abuse at them in person and via text. They send me screenshots and vent to me, and of course I lend a sympathetic ear because they are my dear friends. But every time I get a little bit sad about being single, or wonder if I made a mistake by not having kids (rare, but sometimes the thought does pass through my head), I think of my friends and their awful, sleepless and abuse-laden, financially impoverished lives and breathe a sigh of relief.
"Mr Dolan added: 'Married people are happier than other population subgroups, but only when their spouse is in the room when they are asked how happy they are. When the spouse is not present: f---ing miserable.
'We do have some good longitudinal data following the same people over time, but I am going to do a massive disservice to that academic science and just say: if you are a man, you should probably get married; if you are a woman, don't bother.'
I do believe if men weren't such children and actually behave like a parent and do the raising together, doing his part in maintaining marriage then I'm sure married women would be the happiest. Whenever men leave their wives behind and they regret it the first they mention is why they miss their wives, not because they love them so much but because they cook and do everything in the house for them.
This is why it is so important that IF I were to get married/date, it absolutely needs to be with a man who adds value to my already amazing childfree and single life. Otherwise, what seriously is the point? I don't want kids, so it's not like I need to settle with some scrote before my biological clock runs out. There really is no benefit to having most men in my life, though I do sometimes miss making out with them 😅
49 yr old, single and childfree and I’m living my BEST life! Been married twice and so much happier living alone! I’m still dating my second ex. We just aren’t married and don’t live together. Much happier this way!
Net worth $1.2M including paid off, adorable cottage remodeled just the way I want it including extensive garden, home office and home gym. All the money I want to spend on my dogs and cat.
Great family, great friends, awesome job.
The patriarchy HATES me!! I’d be burned as a witch 400 years ago for the audacity to be independent and focused on women friends, garden and animals.
I’m leaning into the witch aesthetic! 🧙♀️I just need a pet owl 🦉I already have a cat 🐈⬛ and bat 🦇house!
Thanks for sharing.
As a 30-something single, child-free woman, I hope this is true, but I don't know if I can believe it.
Sure, I'm much happier than an abused single mom, but I don't know if I'm happier than a happily married mom or a childfree woman who's in a relationship.
As they keep stating "we'll change our minds someday" even scrotes my age are starting to sound like old men from when I was a teen, they all know it's a glorified oppression tool.