Hi Ladies,
I'm so tired of society constantly shaming women for choosing to be single over being trapped in a bad or abusive relationship. It seems that the narcissists (pickmes and narc men) are the ones who shame us the most since they're addicted to people and can never be alone. Never have I ever encountered as much shaming and backlash than from narcissistic men who shamed me for not even being interested in dating. I do believe society has an agenda to trap us Ladies with these predators especially since online dating is basically the Cluster B lounger and I'd swarming with narcissists/sociopaths. Most of the online dating male coaches are also narcissistic predators just taking advantage and using women for their narcissistic supply. I've escaped a lifetime of narc abuse starting with my toxic family that I've cut all off but a few of the good ones, and since removing these toxic people and narcissist parasites my life has soared and the blessings from God have poured right into my life once their negative demonic energy was removed from my life. An example is a nasty malignant narcissist who I don't even know who's been stalking my youtube channel speaking out against narc abuse and who's made multiple rape, threats of violence and death threats to me for the past year. Narcissist men are big mad and jealous of women who can be alone and stand proud and confident in their decision to keep leveling up alone without some parasite stressing them out and blocking their blessings. On a side note have any of you experienced death threats from men and if so how did you handle it?
Male social standing is entirely dependent upon women. Doesn't mean they like or value women, but the ability to attract women determines how their peers see them.
Female singleness threatens the very core of their social status. They get bitter because we aren't lowering our own status to prop theirs.
They know that any women can get a man. They know that we aren't single by their choice, but ours.
Yea, I know mgtow, like men who legitimately go their own way and don't trash women, and they get praised for being bachelors/monks, yet wgtow we can't catch a fucking break. Always some incel talking about us and screaming about how we're gonna die alone with cats. Yes, that's the fucking plan! Don't threaten us with a good time, scrotes.
I agree. I have yet to cut ties with my narc toxic family, starting with my pickme mom. I think I read somewhere that if we grew up with narc-abusive family members from young age we end up attracting similar abusive people later in age as adults. And this is where the victim blaming from garbage people come in saying "well pick better" or whatever neg. The flaw in that neg is first of all, we are NOT A pick me. Not our damn fault we were born into less than ideal family structures.
The death threats sound scary are you able to report to police? Get armed? keep knife and weapon near you? Surround yourself with the good family members or friends? Keep receipts and do you "personally" know the guy making death threats? name and shame
Yes, it's true men hate that they can't bully us into relationships. Pickmes think that they are better because they are not single, just lol.
When asked if I'm single I always like to respond with 'Absolutely, and I have no interest in changing that' with the biggest genuine smile I can muster, not in his direction. Usually they have nothing to say to that, and if they do it's some half-assed neg designed to make me prove my happiness to them. I never respond to those with anything but a quirked eyebrow and the laser stare.
I have experienced death threats in the past. I usually respond with a photo of my most recent range target in the 'after' state. Since I open carry wherever possible and make sure to mention that I am very well trained in defense with and without firearms (one of the main ways I stay fit), it's meant to reinforce the idea that I am not the easy target they are hoping for. That's always put paid to the issue. There are very few of these men that have the bite to back up their bark, although you should always take such threats seriously. Report them, block them, do whatever you must to maintain your anonymity and safety.
Misery loves company
Honestly older men in particular rant about single with an obvious terror in their eyes and voice. Younger men do give us the "you'll be the single cat lady line," but I'm finding it's the old scrotes 50+ that are truly terrified.
You can report user for hate speech and violence on YouTube. Does he know your identity? Depending on where you live, you can report to police and women groups. I've realized there are several local women groups where you can report any unsavory male behavior anonymously and even get help finding out his identity, location and previous incidents.
They are shaming because they have nothing good to offer