When you go back to an ex, you're saying that you don't trust your past self's feelings, intuition, and/or hardship. Loving yourself means loving your body's warning signs by trusting your own judgment.
What do u think about this quote I made up about 1 minute ago? Lol. Has someone already thought of this?
On the one hand, I agree that intuition is important and women usually break up with people for the right reasons. On the other hand, I think we sometimes make mistakes and that we can grow and become better versions of our 'past selves'. In the past I've broken up with a HVM because I was 'bored'. I worked a lot on myself afterwards and years later I realised that that particular break up was a mistake. I'm very glad I'm not my past self and instead have a much better understanding of my own feelings and own needs.
Do not get back with exes. Mine's gonna tell everyone around him for the rest of his life that he never cheated or hit me, while asking me on FB messenger to get back with him. (I was waiting for that moment. X) ) Men always know what they've done to you, and the only version of you they're capable of halfway respecting is the version that left.