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So my female friend kinda ditched me for a guy when I was on vacation to go see her. I only got to see her for 2 days. I probably won't get to see her again for a very long time cause she lives so far away. I knew she had a bf and I asked her if she would bring him over while I was there and she said "no I wouldn't do that to you." He kinda came over on a whim and I wasn't notified until the day of and stayed the night. He also brings a g*n where he goes and I didn't know that until the day of as well. She also met him on hinge and they have only been hanging out for 2 weeks so far. The first night I got there we admitted we liked eachother. We were also drinking at her place the first night so maybe I meant it and she didn't? So I guess in the end I was in my feels more than her. I had to listen to them kiss all night. He also didn't make any effort to say hi. He led her right to her room and closed the door and they drank the wine I bought for me and her. I feel kinda broken right now. Idk. Maybe I shouldn't be this sad?
Update: I’m back home and I told her how I felt about her and how him coming over bothered me. Mostly cause I didn’t know him and cause it was for the night. She told me “I’m not gonna say anything.” And that was it. So I really don’t think I meant anything to her as someone who liked her or even as a friend. I should also mention I flew out to see her for the first time after talking to her for a year. I was only there for 2 days. She did help me getting home cause one of my flights got cancelled so I appreciated that.
I’d just get in my car and leave. And never hang out with her again.
Wtf Sounds like you're way better off without her!
Update: I’m back home and I told her how I felt about her and how him coming over bothered me. Mostly cause I didn’t know him and cause it was for the night. She told me “I’m not gonna say anything.” And that was it. So I really don’t think I meant anything to her as someone who liked her or even as a friend. I should also mention I flew out to see her for the first time after talking to her for a year. I was only there for 2 days. She did help me getting home cause one of my flights got cancelled so I appreciated that.
She’ll contact you again when he moves on from Her. Ppl who treat you different just because of others aren't your friends So there is no need to accept them back. Ive seen ppl go and then their life became a mess they all of the sudden remember by existence but I don’t respond.