How do you deal with sexual frustration?

Definitely try toys and lubricant. Smut and erotica exists and it's even in ai form now on apps like character ai and poe ai.

I remind myself that people are bad at sex and suck in bed and wouldn't be able to get me off anyway. Even if they understand what to do, without an emotional connection it's not going to feel better than you can make yourself feel through masturbation.

With a Hitachi and a Kindle Unlimited subscription.

I invested in some fancy complicated toys. Their expensive, but worth it. Toys will never replace human connection or physical touch, but it does keep the frustration at bay.

Vibrator-use regularly. Keeping on top of this is like good rest/eating well.

Doesn’t take away from human connection as someone else has said. But it's a lot less stressful approaching dating/life when you're not sexually frustrated.

Masturbation is a healthy outlet.

I guess for me, if I'm the higher libido partner, I try to make sure things are still balanced and that my partner is actively wanting to be sexual with me. If my needs aren't being met, I'm out of there. I try to date people around my same age and with similar expectations around sex as far as how often and what kind. Dating someone with an extremely low libido will just make you feel ugly and unloved; I wouldn't recommend it.

Pink Lelo does the trick 😜

Sex toys. Art of male video game / anime characters specifically as looking up both or the female will result in just seeing misogynistic bs.

BL (gay) novels are pretty neat too. Favorite site as a teen was myreadingmanga.

If you want to see straight stuff you could look at femdom, my favorite femdom comic is Sadistic Beauty , there is a way to read it for free!

Femdoms my go-to because it's less misogynistic and looking at two boys is just boring after a while, they don't have curves and pretty faces lol

I tend to avoid porn sites and just go for the web comic sites because some of the artists are women and you're not supporting terrible porn sites. Also real life men tied up just looks weird because most of them look sub-par. They have weird bony fish torsos and no ass lol I can't believe they have the nerve to pretend they're dominant with the lack of curves and hair.