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Yesterday, I finally understood what that meant.
Yesterday, I had the best time of my life. I went shopping, ate food, and grabbed a drink alone. It was a very long time since I felt this way. As I went home, I thought about how much fun I had and realized that it should always be like this, and I wouldn’t want to be with anyone that doesn’t make me feel this way.
I have this mindset. Men and friends have to be better than my solitude to be worthy of my time and WOW does this change everything. I wouldn’t have it any other way tho. Be aware that pickmes will call you selfish, unreasonable, unrealistic and a bunch of other names for not giving your time to just anyone, but don’t let them deter you!
Preach! I swear, I think this is why I've been single for so long.
YUP!! Whenever I am home doing my stuff, meal prepping, watching netflix, having a home spa day, doing my nails listening to podcasts, I am 100% happy. Whenever I go out with my friends, I am 100% happy. If it is not to go on a date and be 100% happy I’d rather stay home. I realized this last year, and it was life changing. Every damn time I go on a date, the 1st one or the 10th one, and it is not as good as doing things solo or hanging out with my friends, I swear it will be the last.