Always take space

Take space.

You aren't meant to be convenient to be around.

Take forever to get yourself ready, they'll wait.

Your belongings should take as much of the shared space as you need.

Buy that expensive outfit or expensive food ingredient you want, you deserve nice things.

Don't explain yourself, your wants and needs are not up for debate.

Don't stick around for a conversation you don't want to have, your ears aren't a toilet bowl.

Forgive yourself. You fucked up, and that's okay.

Let go. They'll be fine, I promise.

Ask for favors. Ask for big favors. They like you, they'll be happy to do it for you.

If someone wants to give you gifts or compliments, accept. You deserve it.

If the gifts come with strings attached, don't feel pressured to comply. Their return for the gift is your happiness and gratitude.

Be high maintenance. You are worth the upkeep.

Speak slowly. They'll take time to listen to you.

Support people who need your help, not people who guilt you.