In case any one needed a refresher on just why. Obviously it's a well established FDS concept that men and women cannot and can never be "just friends", as there will inevitably be feelings from one side for the other (99% it's from the man). When that happens and the woman for whatever reason turns the scrote down- EVEN IF for some reason they both choose to remain friends, the man will forever seek revenge/retribution for the humiliation of being turned down.
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I would also argue that a woman should never "remain friends" with a man that she has rejected romantically. Not just because the majority of men are not interested in platonic friendships with women but also because the man will probably try to get back at the woman for rejecting him which leads to situations like this. Just to be clear, I'm not victim blaming the woman here. The man is clearly in the wrong and clearly a scrote.
This man's refusal to pay for a ride of merely 3 blocks purposefully put her in danger as retaliation.
Again, they know perfectly well what they are doing. So many men are just overall bad people.
I have learned the hard way about being friends with males. They take advantage and tell everyone you "friend zoned" them to make everyone pity them. They then keep trying and do the "but I'm a nice guy!" act. Since making my friend group only females (no pickmes allowed), my life is 1000% better.
Appalled but not surprised.
I had several close male friends throughout middle/high school, and every single one of them caught feelings. EVERY SINGLE ONE. It ruins the whole tone of the friendship.
While they were still gracious and never did anything so awful as this scrote, it was uncomfortable staying friends knowing they still held out hope for a relationship that would never happen.
Thanks for sharing.
I'm glad she shamed her "male friend". I know many women in New York who wouldn't have the courage to speak up about something like this on social media.
Scrotes need to be named and shamed.
“A girl wants me to pay for the Uber to our first date. I don’t mind doing it but feels like a weird thing to ask. or am I wrong? is this a red flag??” AHAHAHAHAHAHAHA WTF HAHAHAHAHA. Bullshit disregard for safety. a HVM knows women are more at risk at night and wouldn't think twice. period. Ngl the only time I'm interested in being "friends" with a guy because I'm "interested" too. Men are too fucking weird to be friends with otherwise.