Her husband is a disgusting pornsick pedophile. "Tight labias" without "extra skin" are what prepubescent, little girls look like. Porn actresses actually get surgery on their labia to appeal to their pedo viewers. It's absolutely vile and sick.
EDIT: It's also "lovely" that the comment by that scrote implies that she needs "confidence" to live with the fact that her vulva looks like that of an adult woman and not like a 10-year old girl's. It's obviously normal for her to feel ashamed of that and she needs to put in some extra effort to win over her pedo husband and should be happy if he puts up with that. His attraction to little girl's bodies is not the problem here /s
Imagine having so much audacity that you feel comfortable talking to your wife about your pornsickness and pedo preferences. Where does he store all of that audacity?! Men like this need to be shamed. Women like this need to wake tf up.
Its so ridiculously disrespectful that I now consider it the man passive aggressively breaking up with me.(Like when they start treating you like shit so that you break up with them, instead of JUST breaking up) Its grounds for a block and delete and ghost. He doesn't deserve an explanation or closure. Because he is a porn addict, literally no explanation will be "good enough" for him anyways, just like how no woman will ever be good enough for him.
My PA ex did shit like this to me all the time. It made me suicidal and physically ill for years. Sometimes I wish I had told him that his Frenemy had a bigger dick than him.
Somebody commented these on the original post and they're the perfect replies:
"I remember one of my guy friends in our group was talking about stuff like that one day and I started saying how gross it was when guys have saggy balls or if their dick has a curve in it, I was like ‘ew it’s so off putting I like the nice big straight ones, none of that lopsided ball stuff either.’ He started saying how men can’t help it if their dick curves?? Like what, do women have a choice about their labia wtf 😂"
"It's very interesting that he said these things to you, isn't it?
Usually when a man goes out of his way to insult the appearance of women to another woman, it is an attempt to create anxiety for that woman about her own appearance. It's an implicit threat: "Spend all your attention worrying about whether you are hot enough for me (instead of thinking about whether I'm good enough for you), or I'll treat you and talk about you this way."
"For some reason", you got repulsed and offended because it's repulsive and offensive girl
I'm happy that she didn't blame herself for feeling that way and asked other women what they think. We need to get women to trust their gut and to seek community amongst each other like that more often.
It's sad that she's married to him though. Who knows what other repulsive viewpoints he has if he thinks that saying that is okay. She's probably too deep in to leave him. She even deleted the post.
I scrolled further in the thread and it turns out the woman is 23, the husband is 37 and he married her when she was 19. What a surprise...
I dont understand why we keep telling women to go against their gut. She feels disgusted and still people tell her its okay :D. Cant anybody say, you feel bad for a reason? This is so
"If you are being emotionally abused, reward him with keeping sweet to 'regain' his respect!" Aka an unwinnable trap. I wish I saw this "advice" (blatant misogyny) for what it was when I was younger. All I know is it made me feel sad and uncomfortable and like it was unfair, but even libfems (who made rp mad) and "egalitarians" would preach to tolerate this. Mad.
Her husband is a disgusting pornsick pedophile. "Tight labias" without "extra skin" are what prepubescent, little girls look like. Porn actresses actually get surgery on their labia to appeal to their pedo viewers. It's absolutely vile and sick.
EDIT: It's also "lovely" that the comment by that scrote implies that she needs "confidence" to live with the fact that her vulva looks like that of an adult woman and not like a 10-year old girl's. It's obviously normal for her to feel ashamed of that and she needs to put in some extra effort to win over her pedo husband and should be happy if he puts up with that. His attraction to little girl's bodies is not the problem here /s
Imagine having so much audacity that you feel comfortable talking to your wife about your pornsickness and pedo preferences. Where does he store all of that audacity?! Men like this need to be shamed. Women like this need to wake tf up.
She just got the ick. Follow that instinct to never sleep with him again
This will be the same male on deadbedrooms wondering why his woman is repulsed by him
In the comments she says, she was 18 and he 33 when they met.
This woman's libido is telling her what her conscious mind is denying: R U N
Somebody commented these on the original post and they're the perfect replies:
"I remember one of my guy friends in our group was talking about stuff like that one day and I started saying how gross it was when guys have saggy balls or if their dick has a curve in it, I was like ‘ew it’s so off putting I like the nice big straight ones, none of that lopsided ball stuff either.’ He started saying how men can’t help it if their dick curves?? Like what, do women have a choice about their labia wtf 😂"
"It's very interesting that he said these things to you, isn't it?
Usually when a man goes out of his way to insult the appearance of women to another woman, it is an attempt to create anxiety for that woman about her own appearance. It's an implicit threat: "Spend all your attention worrying about whether you are hot enough for me (instead of thinking about whether I'm good enough for you), or I'll treat you and talk about you this way."
Perhaps a penis would be more to his liking.
But god forsake a woman like large penises.
Ma'am, this is your INTUITION speaking. Listen to her.
Also, being married to a scrote who watches porn? Might as well be cheating with another woman in person. Maybe he is.
"For some reason", you got repulsed and offended because it's repulsive and offensive girl
I'm happy that she didn't blame herself for feeling that way and asked other women what they think. We need to get women to trust their gut and to seek community amongst each other like that more often.
It's sad that she's married to him though. Who knows what other repulsive viewpoints he has if he thinks that saying that is okay. She's probably too deep in to leave him. She even deleted the post.
I scrolled further in the thread and it turns out the woman is 23, the husband is 37 and he married her when she was 19. What a surprise...
I dont understand why we keep telling women to go against their gut. She feels disgusted and still people tell her its okay :D. Cant anybody say, you feel bad for a reason? This is so
BUilD uP yOuR ConFiDenCe.
Thanks bro🤙🏽! Lame ass advice lol.