Why is it always the glasses wearing benie thumping new agey woke hipsters that tote this BS? Had one guy on a second date bring up the idea of this degeneracy and I quickly shut him down saying I have too much self respect to even think about that sh*t and shamed it saying theres too much danger involved in love triangles and I brought up the stories on the 48 hrs show. He then in the date proceeded to call me 'intimidating' lmao aka not a doormat he could wipe his dirty converse he wore to the date all over. This same scrote complained about a $5 cover for a pub so we ended up going to another place without a cover. How on earth could this delusional scum think he could afford a whole harem of women when he can't even fork over a $5 cover for one? Yet somehow could still afford to buy pizza for all his female 'friends' he had over at his house playing DnD and for all his weed he was smoking with them together? 🤔 Needless to say I blocked and deleted after he trauma dumped and claimed he'd been previously raped and his ex wife was a sociopath who lied about getting cancer (probably from the stress he caused her). Side note: I'm world traveled, lived in NYC and all over the eastcoast with a bachelor's and with an over six figure career and he's lived in our hometown in the midwest his whole life and never left and always worked at stocking at a retail job with no degree. I found this out on the second date, I know I know)
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I’m sorry this happened to you. Polyamory doesn’t work whether it’s in regards to relationships (love triangles) or sex (threesomes). I never tried polyamory or a threesome. I never will try them because I have heard way too many horror stories and I am monogamous. Many men want to fulfill some sick porn fantasy in their head and in their eyes monogamy is dead when it’s not dead. They are the ones making it dead. Glad you blocked and deleted him. The trash took himself out
Well done for calling him out on the date and not staying quiet! That’s a boss move. And yes, hilarious that someone moaning about a cover would feel equipped to be sexually involved with one woman let alone several.
The term "polyamory" is supposed to mean "multiple loves," but there is no love when you're not monogamous. Period. It's just a new way to justify being a whore.
Polyamory is like hookup culture in that men want to have their cake and eat it too. Women are hurt no matter what.
Poly guys are the worst..
But I have to ask... Why did you not end the date right then and there when he said he didn't want to pay the $5 cover and went to another place with him?
That was a red flag right there..
Scrotes alwayyyyyssssss got money hiding somewhere in their lives. That's why I never believe them when they say they're broke or have some other money issue that they can't pay for dates. They absolutely do have money. And if he wants to have sex with a female friend, he'll dig his little paws into his dirty couches to find spare change and do all sorts of things for quick cash.
They have money for expensive PCs and video games and pornography and shitty action figures. But a date? Nah, too much. 🙄
I've never seen anyone who is actually good-looking be interested in polyamory. Not once.
Men really just want to cheat without any consequences. I hate this poly bullshit with a passion. Every “poly” person I knew was unhinged with severe mental issues
Most men can barely handle being a reliable partner for ONE person.
I genuinely think deep down these men get into relationships that are doomed to fail from the start, so they can blame the breakdown of the relationship on external forces (e.g. "my partner was just so jealous" "it was the language barrier") rather than to come to terms that they're not as good as a partner as they think they are.
💯 “It’s never who you want to be polyamorous who’s polyamorous.” 🎶 Anytime poly scrotery comes up I love when an FDS Queen shares this amazing Chris Fleming “Polyamorous” song: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=DTsdKycVZZ4
i hate polyamory with a passion. you dodged a bullet and you shamed him well. congrats! too much self respect for polyamory yessss! i love that!
i've seen people argue that poly relationships/poly sex is safer because people wear condoms more often than monogamous couples. they say monogamous couples are more prone to STDs due to cheating + sex without protection (since women usually take birth control and they think they are the only person their partner is having sex with). well, that happens because THEY ARE NOT MONOGAMOUS. monogamy means ONE partner. if they cheat, they aren't monogamous!
When ever I hear a scrote trauma dump , I know now they were probably the perpetrator. “She was a sociopath” “I was raped” I doubt it. Me thinks those things are a projection. Not that there are no male rape victims. I know two male rape victims and they don’t trauma dump that shit on strangers.
It sure is. It’s only acceptable when men do it and that makes it disgusting. Imagine all the diseases these filth spread.
These men can't even satisfy and look after one woman let alone multiple 🤣
A man’s priorities are always made clear to me once I know what he budgets his money for. And if he isn’t making much of his own money-he is prioritizing his own mental health as being way more important than the mental health of the people he has in his life.
if he was bitching about a $5 cover that’s immediately a big insult to you
There’s a girl I’m friends with and I used to admire her marriage so much. Then a few years ago she changed and started talking about being bi and all this stuff she never mentioned before. Then she comes out as saying she wants a third for her and her husband and how most women are basic and don’t know how to please a man, yada,yada…sexual braggadocio stuff. So a few months back she posted how her husband cheated on her a few years ago — BINGO — and she realized it was her fault bc she wasn’t giving him the attention he needed and how she was lowkey grateful for him forcing her to level up. (All this posted on SM!). But explains a lot. She’s poly now to keep him! 🤮
i had a poly bisexual man approach me once. he was really ugly and his gf talks to him in a baby voice. so disturbing
STD speedrun
I posted on here about a polyamorous couple a while back. They seemed nice but the guy shit talked their "third" and unknowingly told a whole ass group of people that he has erectile dysfunction. (The other woman didn't moan enough while eating out my girlfriend so my pp go soft)
Well found out through a mutual friend that they fight all the time. Color me shocked. 🙄 "Kink" is just code word for erectile dysfunction and pedophile adjacent.
This same poly guy called me a "Dom" because I expect foreplay and kissing before sex. :')
Basic fucking foreplay and kissing...
Sicko.