Has anyone else been encountering men that give off r*pist and very pushy and weird energy? I'm in college and even outside of school I can't completely avoid men but this oversexual behavior with them is so off putting and scary. I've had a lot of encounters when i'm out in public or even in school environments, guys are so pushy and its honestly been making me very uncomfortable. I don't even know how to watch my social interactions with men at this point. I've even had to block some that have found my social media and proceeded to message me because they wanted to desperately have sex. It's tot he point where i see how men are and i don't even care about relationships anymore. most males repulse me.
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Unlike the past courting practices of yesteryear, men don't have to hide their true intentions. It's the unfortunate conclusion of "You miss every shot you don't take" with no tact whatsoever.
You are in college which makes you between ages of 18-22 which is the prime target age for 99.999% of men. This time of your life is when you are going to get hit on the most. I am happy you are seeing the behavior for what it is,and questioning it. Many girls your age are very naive. Unfortunately we are not human beings to men. We are walking vaginas. They don't see us as people with minds, hearts, thoughts, feelings etc. In their warped perception, we were put on this earth to service their sexual urges. PERIOD. So yes you definitely need to watch your social interactions with men 100%.
I've been thinking about this. I've been on dating apps and the way some men will push for 'cutesy' things like saying they wanna kiss me or hug me and me giving ZERO indications or even directly replying to it and they STILL push for that shit again... sooo you just said you wanna kiss someone and they dont respond at all... and your instinct is too push for more? I am proud of myself for recognizing the toxic behavior and just stopped replying
I suspect it might be the high testosterone (and their lack of self responsibility, of course) that unhinges them. Stay safe out there.
I'm always armed in public. Porn has made men unhinged, and they cannot distinguish between reality and porn actresses. Protect yourself at all times.
Most of them.