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This has me once again comparing whether it's even worth it to vet men or it's better to be a solo-mom by choice (SMBC) (maybe move in with a bestfriend to raise our kids together).
Just imagine if that poor little girl grew up to be 17 and had her 17 year old school friends come over? Would her pedo dad have filmed them too?
What would guarantee better protect for children: the best man who seemed consistent all these years or for me to limit all the things that can go wrong.
Keeping a man is like raising a vicious guerilla as a pet.
At least Autumn's mum is not a pickme.
You are hurting yourself by watching all this horrible shit. What's making you continue? We need to shield ourselves. There is so much horrible shit out there and our brains are not wired to watch it everyday. It will fuck with your mental health. Go for a walk, play a game, make some art or read a book. Don't let the internet swallow your soul.
"or it's better to be a solo-mom by choice (SMBC)" Yes, yes- it really is tbh. There was a story just a a day or so ago about a 13 year old girl being kidnapped by her mother's ex boyfriend (the news report didnt specify if she was touched, but she was checked out at a hospital and "safe" with her mom now). Men just shouldn't be allowed around kids and they'll convince you why if you let em. They are depraved and disgusting. Notice how even the staunchest of pickmes raise their eyebrows when mothers allow their boyfriends around their kids- we all know how, deep down inside, that they are fucked up. They're the fastest way to get cps called on you. It doesn't matter whether the man with children are their biological father or biological relative or not, they still pose an emence treat to the children. Have you ever watched judge judy and see how she gives mothers a hard time when she hears the boyfriend is taking care of the kids while the mother is at work or away but when it's the reverse (the father with a random woman) she only says something if the woman is causing hostility between the father and mother? There's a reason for that. Cases show that the biological father is a safer bet, but even he isn't safe. How many times have you seen teen girls talking about how their father gets bothered when they dress "skimpy"? Sorry for the rant, it's just that it happens so often that single mothers harm their children by allowing monsters into their home 😅