Lundy Buncroft, perhaps not different from the rest of men

If these allegations are true, it would explain a lot why he knows abusive men's mind so well.

That would make sense, what a horror.

It's possible. Yet the idea of him being an abuser and a sex offender himself isn't that outlandish.

The idea isn't, I agree. And men are shits. All of them. In this situation, I haven't seen actual evidence, that's all expressing.

I hate to say I agree. On the one hand, I always believe women, and yes, I'd believe this too if it's true. But a part of me raises an eyebrow that the sources are uncredited quotes and stories from an online forum. I think it warrants someone to investigate Lundy and I will absolutely belive it if it's all verified, but we have to consider that anyone can write anything on online forums.

Pkease share the link for free download if youcan :)

Sometimes looking at the mind of a manipulator can give you the best insight. Free PDF online won't give him a dime.

https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&opi=89978449&url=https://archive.org/download/LundyWhyDoesHeDoThat/Lundy_Why-does-he-do-that.pdf&ved=2ahUKEwjeie266IWBAxXVDDQIHUVpDbIQFnoECDwQAQ&usg=AOvVaw14x4ivUm5xgJ67TT78XfZt

I think both can be true at the same time, for whatever it's worth. If he did commit acts against women, his book still could be life-saving for us! Though, of course, I won't look at him the same way.

Got to say, I like how you worded your response. Rare to see an example of FDS woman energy as described in the handbook, when responding to something, without being rude/disrespectful. My own musing (unrelated to the post).

Sure, but the allegations in this case are quite vague and hard to track down, and these questionable retreats are not happening anymore. It's not a clear-cut case at all. However, since I never glorified the man for his personality, there is no reason to believe he is a saint either. The fact is he wrote a very useful book, that's all I ever knew and all I needed to know.