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i remember this being an fds talking point when i first stumbled upon the subreddit a couple of years ago. the fact that men that masturbate to rape and abuse porn have the audacity to lie on behalf of other depraved men is sickening. i would believe that a man accidentally got hard if this was the 1890s and showing a bit of ankle was still scandalous, but men are exposed to porn in their preteens these days and it's been proven that with increased porn consumption actually comes decreased ability to get hard (erectile dysfunction is going up these days and it's not for no reason). the comments on this post are so frustrating, the gaslighting makes me want to bash my head into a wall. i'm half-tempted to dm the op myself and tell her that her bf clearly has seen too much porn and is aroused by seeing her in pain, but that's probably overstepping my bounds.
dissenting opinions are more than welcome as i'd like to see other women's perspectives. i just found this entire thing to be the most DARVO tactic thing ever. how dare you shame your porn-addicted bf for being turned on by you crying when you're the one with the audacity to wear a sundress ... ugh.
I understand that some women here are just waking up to the depths of male depravity, but please, can we stop posting rage bait stories with Reddit screenshots? Sigh.
Reddit is a dumpster fire. Turning to the manosphere of Reddit for "good advice" is like expecting your cat to complete your physics homework (actually kitty has a better chance of getting an A+ than these clowns spitting out anything useful)
This happened to me! I was worried about one of my children and I was super upset. I rarely cry, but so was overwhelmed with concern and stress, I got into bed with my partner and I began to cry. He had been sleeping and he woke up and he hugged me and kissed my forehead said some kind words. He was always very supportive.
I was talking about what was bothering me and out of nowhere he says, “You know, you were really sexy earlier today; you really turned me on.” I was so stunned, I couldn’t even speak. Then he offers to go down on me. I was literally crying when he said this. Horrified, I politely decline and I fell asleep. It was so out of character I didn’t even know how to handle it. But there was always something about his sexual energy that I didn’t like.
The next day I bring it up, telling him how weird and inappropriate it was and he claimed he was joking. Lies. That’s when I knew it was over.
The comment there is the epitome of "boys will be boys"