Excuse me while I vomit

That she has to ask his permission too, so creepy.

Facts.

Exactly what I was thinking! She was a TEENAGER who really didn't know much/have much experience. This guy was probably her first, or one of the first. She doesn't know what it's like to be really satisfied, so she settles for this guy and normalizes it in her mind. GIrls, STOP "getting over" this stuff and accepting unequal/bad sex as the price of admission for this Relationship Rollercoaster. It just makes you motion sick and nauseous!

I guess she wants people to assume she’s a model, and how dare it happen to a model pickm/dream girl?

My first red flag this is a man pretending to be a woman, the porny description

Don't be hard on her--it's the conditioning of patriarchal society teaching young girls to accept this B.S. She's just trying to assert that she's attractive, whatever that means to her/her social circle. As we know, you can never be attractive enough to be treated well by a selfish scrote. It's just not something they do.

God I hope you’re right bc this is just vile

This is definitely a male troll. But to be fair, I 100% believe that there are men out there expecting women to blow them while they watch porn, and I believe there are women who are pickme enough or low-self-esteem enough to put up with it. That a man could even come up with this story as a troll post is sickening - he's fantasizing about controling and abusing us.

This might, indeed, be a troll, but, actually, LOTS of women express such things, sadly. It's infuriating, but, true. Listen to the FDS podcasts episodes discussing articles women have written about their so-called "polyamorous/non monogamous/mixed sexuality" marriages. It's gross and disturbing. I also recently heard a woman who calls herself Dr. Sex Fairy saying how misguided is the advice that women "don't focus on the orgasm, just enjoy the experience" and how MEN would never be told to do that. I've known married women who NEVER had orgasms and I keep hearing this story more and more.

Yes, that line specifically as well! Like AI programmed to say what men want to hear, in a very un-nuanced, overly reductive way that isn’t really indicative of the complexities of actual personhood at all….kind of like how misogynists *wish* we thought (and how they see us)!

It definitely sounds like a male wish fulfillment post, on the other hand, she could have had her self esteem thoroughly ruined by her partner and Reddit. It wouldn't surprise me. Maybe she wanted to emphasize how much effort she puts into being attractive for him, to preemptively counter any "well meaning advice" that she should do more to keep him interested. It strikes me as a desperate "what more does he want??" kind of thing. She's comparing herself to the women in porn and asking herself why she's not good enough for him, not realizing it's a him problem.

Honestly, it TOTALLY sounds like a woman. There are MANY such real stories of women "learning to accept" such things, "not judging or resenting" him for his "desires and needs" (which include screwing other women, half his age--yeah, he "needs" that!), being upset when he first started having sex with other women in the next room (of our home), but, then, "I learned that it was MY problem, not his". YES, this is ALL TRUE. Check out the FDS podcast episodes on polyamory and mixed marriages! Bring a punching pillow and a puke bucket!

YES, totally pornsick! That's why he cannot get it up for a real woman. I have heard this story before--even from men. There was a guy on a sexual health podcast, sharing his story of pornsickness from the age of 9! Early internet porn rendered him totally incapable of REAL sex, even with the girl he really liked when he was 18. I'm glad some men are finally talking about how FUCKED UP porn has made them, and its evils upon mental health, even society's members as young as little children. Their malleable minds are highly susceptible. And this guy's story was not the first time I'd heard of this porn-induced impotency.