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I have never hated men as much as after becoming a mother and truly seeing how much the world hates women, despite us raising the people of the future.
I was with the father 5 years before having a child, right after the birth he lost his job, his mind and started creating so much drama that I nearly couldn’t keep my job either. I had to kick him out before destroying everything I worked so hard for.
Although my life is more peaceful now I hate that I’m forced to do everything with no help from society. I’m lonely and isolated like I’ve never been before.
I’ve dated a bit, mainly focusing on single dads. But I just can’t. When seeing how their lives have hardly changed. They have their kids maybe every other weekend, or just every other holiday. They have plenty of time for friends, hobbies and dating, while I have time for none of those things.
Are there any other women on here that have gone through something similar? And to everyone else, don’t have children unless you’re fine with the idea of becoming a solo mum eventually. You can know them for 5 damn years like I did and they will still change once they have impregnated you.
I’ve been a single mom of 3 kids for 20 years, beginning when my youngest was 1 year old.
Even though women are superior to males, and mothers are better parents than fathers - single mothers are vilified in a patriarchy. This is because society has conditioned everyone to believe that a woman must be partnered with a man, in order to have status. This affects single moms and single women (aka “crazy cat ladies”).
It took me several years of therapy to process all my internalized misogyny, and to overcome my deep fear of being single. Now I am truly free.
Your self worth comes from inside, from the knowledge that you are a biologically and mentally, superior human being, simply because you’re a woman. I hope you can shed the need to feel that male approval or desire has any value. “Dick is abundant and of low value,” and “Men will fuck a McChicken, why would I be flattered if they want to fuck me?”
Focus on your little family, focus on self-care, focus on becoming financially and emotionally resilient.
Ignore the opinions or reactions of scrotes and pick mes. You got this!