Luxury lovers - what are your favourite things you've ever bought or been gifted?

My luxury item probably isn't what you have in mind, but my parents, at my request, bought me a brand new Steinway Model B in the 1990s. At the time, it cost $40,000, which they paid in cash. I think a similar piano would cost $100,000 in 2024.

Acquiring it was as simple as going to the Steinway store in my city and selecting the one I wanted. I tried all the Steinway grand pianos they had and made my decision over the course of a few weeks.

My parents always spoiled me when it came to academic and artistic learning. By providing generously for me, they brought me up to have high financial expectations from romantic partners; this is why I have no tolerance for cheap men.

Here's a picture of a Steinway Model B from the Steinway site. It looks exactly like the one I have. And you bet I practiced the fuck out of it.

https://eu.steinway.com/en/pianos/steinway-grand-pianos/b-211/

Never been gifted anything luxurious, so I buy for myself lol

I bought my first Louis Vuitton in 2020 during the pandemic and it was the best thing I did for myself. I was supposed to be in Italy for Christmas that year.

My favorite luxury gift is my house. My parents purchased it for me to live in, and I just pay the living expenses (utilities and property tax). (My parents are not terribly wealthy, but my dad was successful in his career and they have made smart financial decisions over the years, as well as receiving inheritance from their parents which allowed them to purchase a second home as a family investment.)

It’s not a mansion, or even particularly nice - it was built in the early 70s and desperately needs a remodel. But I love having housing security, a large backyard and front yard, and getting to live in a neighborhood that feels very safe and comfortable. Not having any fears of my rent going up drastically, or of getting evicted, or needing multiple housemates to afford the rent, all of those things are wonderful and have given me a sense of freedom and calm and control over my life.

It’s also given me the power to easily reject cohabitation requests from my bf (he also owns his house). I am not desperate for a roof over my head, I’m not getting kicked out of my home, I’m not worrying about my lease ending and needing to find somewhere to live that’s affordable. So if my partner wants me to move in with him, he knows he needs to offer me a situation that is markedly better than the one I already have. I already have a good life and my base needs met, so he needs to be offering something truly great in order to convince me to make changes to my life.

I was gifted a few things like Burberry handbags and a coat, a new car, designer boots, jewelry and some trips to exotic locations. I like nice things, and have collected beautiful items and artwork over the years for myself. I like understated pieces, not flashy or fad items.

Unfortunately, none of those relationships were good. I just happen to have dated some men who bought me things. And they offered me more than I accepted - I said no many times.

But I was a pick me: I smiled too much, was sexually enthusiastic and fast, I was too nice and I put up with a LOT of bullshit. The gifts I received can never repay me for the pain of those relationships.

I am much happier now, taking care of my self and my heart, and treating myself right. I’m on a dating hiatus, and not sure when I’ll be open to meeting someone new. For now I am content.

Links in case anyone is curious. The car was years ago but that model:

us.burberry.com

Inspired by our heritage styles, a trench coat tailored from Italian-woven cashmere. The lightweight design is cut to a regular fit with structured set-in sleeves. Double-breasted button closure Hook-and-eye collar closure Throat latch Epaulettes B buckle belt Side welt pockets Belted cuffs Back vent Comes with a garment bag

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Authentic Burberry Deep Claret Bridle Leather Crossbody Mini Satchel Bag . Condition is Like new

Well, there's my house (a luxury especially in this economy...), travelling and a whole lot of luxurious pet stuff (only the best for them), but I think you're not talking about stuff like that, so here are a few that may fit:

• a beautiful collection of traditional Bohemian garnet jewellery I inherited. The oldest pieces are from the 1880s and every generation added a piece or two since then. Almost all women in my family have worn pieces for special occasions and it's just beautiful to be part of that heritage. I love the color of the stones and general style even if it is considered a little old fashioned by many people today.

  
  

• I also have a weakness for authentic Art Nouveau jewellery and own quite a few unique pieces I found in thrift shops, at flea markets, little antique shops, estate sales etc.. I love the use of floral and animal motives together with more modern elements.

  
  

• The first "real" watch I bought for myself was a Tissot Carson because I fell in love with the moon phase complication (this one https://www.tissotwatches.com/en-en/T1222231103300.html)

For other items (clothes, bags etc.) quality, comfort and functionality are much more important to me than brand names. They go together sometimes but not always. In general, I look for timeless pieces that will last and won't go out of style (like a really nice wool coat) rather than famous brands or trendy items.