I'm thinking about going out to this girls only "Galentines Day" event. You have to pay to join which is fine with since it filters out guys and weirdos. We're meeting at a pool hall dinner/bar place right by the water and I don't know what to wear. This is my first time going to this type of even

I'm a bit late to this, but after seeing posts about Hailey and Justin Bieber not dressing correctly. I thought I'd share my own story with a man I stopped seeing shortly like Justin. A few weeks ago I went on date with a work colleague (from another department). Sadly, he was not dressed to my l

Trying to appear HV for the sake of work related respect and maybe better service at a restaurant but I don't want to attract guys or attention. Ive been dressing nice because I've noticed people treat me better and I've actually been getting cat called less and respected more. (Classism obviously

I'm someone who, when they eat out somewhere and get bloated (or have to sit for a long time), would much rather be sitting/eating in dress than in pants or anything whose waist I can feel getting tighter against my body as I bloat. I wear comfortable underwear, so that the bloat doesn't affect the

So, after 3 children and I'm in my 40's. My third child was born 11yrs ago. My body has taken a hit aesthetically. However, I have worked damn hard on using what I have and making it the best I can with fitness. My body is looking good I do admit and I've found a new hobby that I socialise too. My s

I’ve noticed these are two things that many women tend to be insecure about. I know I was for a very long time. I remember in high school I had swimming as my first class of the day. So what would I do? I’d shower, blow dry my hair, and put on a full face of makeup before heading to school. The

Okay this is kind of embarrassing but did anyone else love to pull their eyelashes (or like 'push' your eyebrows) as a kid and now they're not a long as they should be? 🤔 I want to fix this. I found this: https://theordinary.com/en-us/multi-peptide-lash-brow-serum-100111.html and it perfectly fits

Hello ladies, I am working on upgrading my wardrobe after discovering Kibbe and Seasonal Colour Analysis. The problem I am running into is finding clothing which is in an alternative style and not black. I don't want to let go of my inner goth queen and want to find a way to express myself withou

Hi ladies, Last year I donated my worn out leggings, but I haven't repurchased them. Frankly, I'm hesitating because I don't want to put the goodies on display by wearing leggings, but the only other alternative I've found is joggers, but those are shapeless. Either I look like a guy or put my bits

I was watching old grooming and skincare videos recently on Youtube from the 40's, 50's, and 60's pertaining to makeup, grooming, and skincare. Many of us have learned skincare and beauty secrets from our mothers, aunts, grandmothers, and other female relatives or older women about how to care for o

I am lost on this topic and was wondering if someone could help me simplify it. I want to level up and present myself to the world well for everyday and different occasions. This is to avoid any preventable mistreatment from others, looking appropriate for work, and fitting in well with other women.

They get the benefit of signalling "liberal" politics and predisposes women to view them favourably as men who reject toxic masculinity but actually doesn't mean shit. Some of them even do it deliberately to reap such benefits (red flag). Also rather effeminate.

It was a beautiful day in Vegas. I was at the pool of a 5 star hotel, soaking up the sun. Suddenly a scrote approached. “Hey, can I take a picture of you? I’m with a bachelor’s party and we’re on a scavenger hunt. We’re supposed to find a girl with really fake boobs.” This wasn’t how I’d imagi

So... I'm not sure about the category, but since it's essentially about decluttering I put it in "home improvement". Please feel free to change it, if it doesn't fit there, mods. After re-reading the Marie Kondo books (absolutely recommend them if someone hasn’t read them yet) I have taken on the t

Watching 90210 reruns and I couldn't help but reminisce about the days of yore when men showered, shaved and took time to carefully manicure their coiffes every morning. I'm kind of digging the hairstyles on these men. I feel like, for the most part, they'd still fly today. What is your

I mean the "shoe" booties, lol. I have a nice bootie (as I said. above...) that would fit better if I wore a boot sock with it, but the boot sock comes up above the circumference of the bootie. I suppose I could fold the sock so that it remains inside the bootie, but is it OK for me to simply wear

I'm saving up for the Cartier Love ring, but the catch is that it's marketed as a wedding band. I like the ring, because it's minimalist and cute. All my fingers are pretty uniform, so I plan to wear the ring on multiple fingers. Some days the ring will be on my pointer finger, middle finger, and

Hi, I have an idea of what the answers will be lol, but I can't help but write this thread anyway. I am about 5 feet 9 or 10. I found some comfortable wedge sandals that are 2.75 inches in heel height. But I feel like I'd tower over everyone else when I have them on and I feel awkward (at least righ

I hope this post isn't too controversial. I have a couple of white bras that I got recently because the weather is going to be in the upper 90s in the foreseeable future, and if white does the best job at keeping out heat, then so be it, but people get all puffed up if they can sense a white bra und

I was wondering how some of you ladies dress. As I've been learning more about how I've been doing most things in my life to impress others and men, I am starting to revamp my entire wardrobe. I notice that many women wear form fitting outfits, especially now that summer is coming around. Personally

I'm looking for what other people practically do. I know the industry recommendation is to dump your makeup every year or so, maybe less for liquids. And I do for liquids--foundation, mascara, etc--they get funky after a while. But I have some face powders or blushes I might hold on to for over a

I have my friends bridal dinner next month and already found a dress. I'm overweight and a bit self-conscious about it (I'm also trying to lose weight). I was wondering what are some affordable brands of Spanx that can conceal most of my middle area?

Unpacking the last few boxes from my move and when I decluttered before I only kept 4 perfumes that didn't remind me of scrotes or unhappy times past. Versace Crystal Noir, Black Opium, YSL Libre Intense, and La Vie Est Belle. So I'm now starting the hunt for a new signature scent. I've ordered so

https://www-glamour-com.cdn.ampproject.org/v/s/www.glamour.com/story/2023-style-trends/amp?amp_gsa=1&amp_js_v=a9&usqp=mq331AQKKAFQArABIIACAw%3D%3D#amp_tf=From%20%251%24s&aoh=16763040996048&referrer=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.google.com&ampshare=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.glamour.com%2Fstory%2F2023-style-trends As we

I wanted to share some more thoughts about personal presentation and women's place in society. This will touch on the ways which we signal our social class as well as our self-worth - two separate concepts which may overlap, or may not. A caveat: I will be making generalisations here, and my attempt

I was looking forward to getting twists for the first time and I had a plan in mind. I found a great stylist who was nice and took her time. I say my hair results....and it did not suit me. My face is wide and the style looked so thin and man-ish. It was my fault for not showing a picture and letti

This is kinda weird but I want to get a new type that will: 1. Keep my lips hydrated in winter for long period of time 2. Not be that kind that you have to apply with your finger 3. No flavoring or scent 4. Not insane price (the kinds you get near the checkout at Walmart is fine) 5. Not Burt's Bees,

do you guys think its normal to have wrinkles on your forehead when you're 28 years old?

I'm usually a woman that settles for one haircut and one haircut only, two if you count its longest stage. Nice and reliable (always stylish), a nice pixie for the hot summer and a nice cosy mullet/wolf cut hybrid for the winter. Anyways I'll cut to the chase, I watched this video were young women b