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There was a woman and a man. Someone asked them if they were together. She laughed super uncomfortably and said she doesn't know because they've been going out for so long, but "what are we?" 😭 when the guy was asked to sit closer too, he didn't want to... sigh. Her time, energy, and emotions are being absolutely wasted.
Side note though : I think it may have been a trans woman? It was a little hard to tell, but I wonder if the guy felt shame ? Which makes me feel even more sorry for the trans woman since I don't really understand why he's going out with a trans woman if he isn't comfortable with it.
I know not everyone on FDS has the same opinion on trans, so I don't want that to be the focus of this post. Trans or not, this was a terrible dating moment and an example of when to dip out...
It's crazy how many guys are out here "still figuring it out" on whether to commit or not after over 3 months of dating someone.
Meh - I'd feel bad if it was a cis woman but if it's a trans "woman" this is basically some perverted man who's getting strung along by another less obviously perverted man. I don't care what deranged men do to each other.
I’m not sure why the dating experiences of men pretending to be women is any of my concern.
Trans or not, no one should be strung along. That whole situation sounds awful.
Let the men date themselves and torture each other, so they can leave us the fuck alone!!
Oh no... a male in women face is being treated terribly by another misogynistic male
I hope he holds onto him so a woman doesn't have to deal with that scrote lmao 🥰
My friend works at a farm, and she told me a man in his late 40s from South Africa came there with a woman who was dressed in workout clothes like they'd been to the gym together. So my friend teased him a little bit, since she see him all the time alone there, and asked, "Is that your girlfriend?" He said no and that they were just friends. She told me that girl probably has no idea that this guy she thinks she's getting close to and is sharing quality time with doesn't even like her. This is the state of affairs these days. Men get sex and companionship, and they don't have to give one f*ck about you or even admit in public that they know you.
If it was a trans woman then the non committal guy is a closeted gay man most likely. Yeah that sucks and no one should be strung along.
But we discuss the dating dynamics of male/female relationships here. Not male/male. There is power dynamics at play and when woman have relationships with men we are basically having a relationship with our oppressors.
If this was a trans woman , then he isn’t in a relationship like this. So why would we talk about it?
This would be really sad if it was a cis woman. Not just because she's being strung along, but because she looks like a man and most likely wants to look like the gender she identifies with (and is), but she can't get her surgeries covered by insurance- while a dude can.
The girlies are waking upppppppp 😝