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Sooooo. I know I shouldn’t have but, I went on a date with a man that is not as attractive as I am. He was funny and nice, so I thought, what ever maybe I will like him. He was a bit overweight , and had a receding hairline. Just to paint a picture for you.
During the date he kept making passive aggressive comments about the fact that I vape. Eye rolling , huffing when I went out side to vape. He then says :Isn’t there something else you can do other than vaping? Looking at me with contempt.
ok I get it, it’s not the healthiest. However. If he doesn’t like it, he should go find someone who doesn’t vape.
Another thing that bothered me, was the fact that he was treating my health choices with contempt. Did I criticize him for the amount he ate? It was a lot! And no, I kept my mouth shut. This man was over weight and clearly not conscious of the sheer amount of food he was eating. It is annoying, that they want to control you, and your body. They want you to fit their ideal. An ideal, that they are so so beneath. this was just a rant. I rode off into the sunset, with my sweet sweet vape.
Next time simply say, "I'll stop vaping when you're no longer obese, deal?" I always give a man back when he's dealing to me. I've told men that I'd get breast implants as soon as they get their penile implant. I've also told me who criticized my curly strawberry blonde hair, "At least I have hair. You're 40 years old, short, and bald. Who are you to be talking to me like that?" I don't put up with one ounce of shit from men anymore. I remember I went out with thus young guy many years ago, and he said he wasn't looking for a relationship, so when he asked me out for a 2nd date, I declined. Then he called me a bitch. So I asked him, "Just who the f*ck do you think you are? What have you ever done in your entire life to give you the status to call ME a bitch? I was a CPT in the United States Army, you weakling!" He apologized. Stand up for yourself. Men are bullies if they're picking on a woman.
He knew you’re out of his league and he felt inadequate, so he tried to knock you down. As you know, this is why we don’t date men who are beneath us. They will not be “grateful” and “worship” you, as men like to claim. Instead, they will demean you in a neverending, doomed attempt to drag you down to their pathetic level.
Have fun on your next date with a man who is as handsome as you are beautiful ❤️
Projection, projection, projection.
the most overweight men I have dated have criticized me for my eating and smoking habits. The relationships where the man was cheating were the ones where they were the most paranoid about me being a cheater. The ugliest men have told me I’m not pretty enough to have any standards. The brokest ones called me a gold digger for wanting them to contribute. it’s always that way.
Men overestimate themselves and their own appearances versus women they go out with. An obese balding man thinks he's on the same level as a healthy bodied young woman with a full set of hair on her, but an obese balding woman is far beneath him to even consider it! Men knock women's self-esteem down several pegs so that they can fuck with the playing level field and this is how we see so many unfortunate looking couples where the woman is gorge but her man looks like an ogre.
It's projection and insecurity. The only people who do this are trying to make you feel bad as a distraction from their own insecurites.
I sometimes drink a diet coke with my lunch. I know... not great but I don't drink coffee and sometimes I just need a little caffeine to get through the rest of the day. I'm not overweight, I work out, I eat healthy, I don't smoke and I don't drink that stuff by the bottle or have it at home.
You can bet that the only colleagues who comment on it are the ones who are overweight, unhealthy and insecure themselves and obviously try to make themselves feel better about their own vices. It almost makes me laugh to hear "You know that's really unhealthy, riiiiight?" or "You really shouldn't drink ANY soda, ever. Even the diet stuff is so bad for you." from a fat scrote who just put four spoons of sugar into his coffee and takes a smoking break every hour.
It always amazes me the amount of judgment leveled at me, as if the other person's shit don't stink.
I dated an overweight man. He used to always motion to his belly and ask servers "What do you have that will be filling enough for a guy like me?" Like, sir- that's not how it works. Just because your belly is big does not mean it has to be filled up more...
One time he finally let me choose a restaurant (because it was always all about him) and I chose Thai food. He ordered 2 meals for himself and an appetizer sampler (which is meant for 4 people) and then hemmed and hawed about how expensive it was. Ummm... my dish was only $12 so whatever.
These scrotes are positively delusional.
My favourite comeback? "People like YOU can't insult people like ME."