I love what you're doing here!

Thanks! Sorry, I don't remember but I'll have a look through my saved articles next time I'm on there and see if I kept it.

This is not the article I was referring to but it does mention FDS and it's from 5 days ago: https://medium.com/sexography/a-closer-look-at-the-growing-female-and-male-separatism-movements-180d1c73cf16

Wouldn't it be great to reach teen girls before they start being pressured to send nudes etc?

That would be life changing even if we reach a small number of those girls.

I wish I could go back in time and stop myself from doing that too.

I woke up early this morning (I'm in the UK) and I was thinking about this. I can't think of any single boomer women I know who are looking for relationships! Even the ones that had happy marriages (that ended in the death of their husbands), say that they won't be looking for a replacement partner and are happy to remain single women until they die.

I used to manage a retirement complex and it was the same there - happy single women with good social lives, living nice lives in clean, tidy apartments. There were many more single men who were looking for relationships and, although most took care of themselves and their apartments reasonably well, if ever there was a hoarder or someone who I needed to keep an eye on because their apartment was so full of trash that it was considered a fire risk, it was a man. In fact, most of the single women I know are reluctant to even help out an older man within their community if his health is deteriorating because they don't want to get sucked into being an unpaid carer/cleaner/personal shopper.

I also remember seeing, several years ago, an article about married boomer women saying that they wish Viagra had never been invented. They had been perfectly happy with non-existent sex lives and then, all of a sudden (and to their complete dismay) their husbands were coming home with boxes of little blue pills, thinking that their wives would be equally delighted that they could resume their sex lives. But the women were quietly cringing! 🙂

But FDS is far more than looking for relationships. This teaches us about male behavior that specifically older generations were never taught. It teaches scrote behavior to watch out for in all relationships. I'm 48 Gen X'er and celibate for 2 years. I have learned so much about male behavior that I wish I had known. It has nothing to do with actively dating present time.

Defo agree! My observation was that I think that many of the boomer women I know have come to that conclusion (re scrote behaviour, etc) gradually over the course of their 60/70 year lives - hence the decision to keep men in general at arm's length and not give them access to their resources in their later years.