Basically, get your shit together first and know what you want.

I hope women can follow this, but I worry that there is just so much pressure to center men and appeal to the male gaze when you're so young. Girls are just steeped in it, and FDS is not widespread or well-known at this point. I do hope more young women decenter guys.

Love this so much. The time I’ve regretted the most is spending my 20s with men.

💯. So happy I only started dating in my late 20s. I can only imagine what a mess I'd have been if I had dated earlier. I'm always telling people this 👏👏👏

In a male dominated world, unfortunately, women's value is only based on how much they please men. That's why so many poor girls only focus on that one thing instead of actually pursuing their interests. A lot of female clothing in major stores are tight and uncomfortable, just because it makes mens' nasty dicks harder. Our society will be so advanced when women finally realise how useless and damaging men's approval is.

Thank you for this message telling me that I made the right decision

Agree but this is extremely difficult because boys and men CONSTANTLY impose their opinions from day one. They're told their opinions are important so they don't shut the fk up.

The post is right, though. This is the ONLY way forward for women. I learned it far too late in my late 30s.