From an epistemological point of view, do you believe that we are living in reality or are we all just “brains in vats?” Regardless of what he answers, ask him if this is the life he’d chosen for himself, and if he got the chance, how’d he re-write it (if at all not what he imagined).
This question is a fun way to see what their deepest desires are and if they’re compatible with you.
I had one guy who was an elementary teacher, exact his fantasies of being the next Elon Musk and Wolf of Wall Street.
Another guy who had a decent desk job as an engineer wanted to quit his 9/5 job with benefits to become a professional poker player lol
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From an epistemological point of view, do you believe that we are living in reality or are we all just “brains in vats?” Regardless of what he answers, ask him if this is the life he’d chosen for himself, and if he got the chance, how’d he re-write it (if at all not what he imagined).
This question is a fun way to see what their deepest desires are and if they’re compatible with you.
I had one guy who was an elementary teacher, exact his fantasies of being the next Elon Musk and Wolf of Wall Street.
Another guy who had a decent desk job as an engineer wanted to quit his 9/5 job with benefits to become a professional poker player lol