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Are women afraid of falling in love with each other?
Most men can't even please a woman in bed, and most don't even bother to look up ways to please their partner.
I feel gay men's relationships are promoted everywhere in TV, music, books, etc than women being in love with other women.
Also, it feels like lesbians prefer to be called gay rather than lesbian.
Do any lesbians use FDS?
What are your thoughts?
I think gay men are just louder and want more attention. They also have the male privilege of being safer in public spaces. We women know we're never safe in public (because men), so I don't see lesbians drawing attention to themselves very often.
Also, internalized misogyny affects us all, regardless of our sexual orientation. So I can see it affecting women's ability to embrace their sexual desires
I've noticed the opposite- lesbianism being more prevalent. And that makes sense, as women are becoming increasingly frustrated with the LV men out there. But I do suspect a lot of "straight" men are actually gay men pretending, since having a wife is so beneficial to them.
I think a lot of lesbians refuse to use the word lesbian, since lesbian porn is so widespread and they don't want to be associated with that. They think "I'm not hypersexual so I wouldn't call myself a lesbian". Lesbian relationships are more common than gay ones I think, but lesbians just don't tell people about it except their close friends and family. So unless they're very openly married, you wouldn't know about it necessarily.
If it's true, then I have no idea how that's possible, because how can anyone find men more attractive than women? Even straight women can't.
Even in the trans community the ftm demographic is horribly unrepresented. I read articles about young ftm people getting killed in smaller rural towns by religious fanatics. It was upsetting but it also upset me that nobody ever cared about those ftm compared to how they praise the trans women