My dating app profile is open to both men and women. Funny that there’re tons and tons of couples using women’s account as a disguise to look for threesome. This is so disgusting. Even on Lesbian apps it’s the same thing!! I’ve never seen couple looking for threesome using men’s accounts. I don’t think gay men are gonna see couples looking for threesome on Grindr.
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I hate seeing this as well.
Couples do this because everyone knows most women find most men physically repulsive, so they use the woman in the relationship as bait. It is completely disgusting.
If dating apps were actually tailored to help women feel safe and respected then shit like this wouldn't pass, I always feel icky about using them now. 🤢🤢
When I was on Bumble just for women friends, there was a lot of this. Ugh. There were also single men's profiles coming up! I guess they just have to toggle the switch to say they're a woman looking for friends and they get to peek at everyone.
Yes they do, if that comforts you (it probably won't). Also on gay dating platforms explicitely for relationships and not hookups. I have a few gay men in my wider friend circle and they also complain about idiots like this (one once told me a story of a woman who used her boyfriend's pictures and name for the account and was openly looking for a guy to fuck him - it was obviously some weird fetish thing - and of course also tons of men who openly admit they are married to a woman and looking to cheat with a dude) on the apps.
Wherever men are involved, shit like this is going to happen because they have no regard for people's comfort or personal boundaries when it comes to getting their sexual fantasies fulfilled. As if a man in a relationship who wants a threesome with his girlfriend and another man wouldn't start lurking on gay dating apps for that.
Report them! I think if the account gets reported enough, it’s kind of permanently banned until they get a new phone number.