It's full of trans women. The CEO is a piece of trash who calls biological women who like biological women transphobes and terfs because we don't want men with dicks who dress as women on the app. The CEO isn't even a lesbian herself.
We need our own apps. I'm sick of WLW dating apps being taken over by men who pretend to be women. Unfortunately, it's not just the app HER, but their CEO is making it clear that she hates biological women for liking biological women.
Links:
https://twitter.com/HerSocialApp/status/1693830395488285106
Here's a YouTuber who discusses this topic:
Another issue with lesbian dating is actually finding TERF minded women. There’s too many that go along with trans ideology. If you’re pro trans, you’re anti woman. Full stop.
Listen to her - the terfs are “hideous, overbearing, aggressive, offensive” - this is exactly the kind of dog-whistle misogyny that is used to oppress and invalidate women for expressing their true beliefs and for acting self-protectively. It doesn’t matter if it’s a woman saying it - it’s still propagating hatred of women.
Oh I found that shit out at 21, lesbian dating apps are absolute trash, they're filled with cis men too so it's not a tr anny thing I promise , weird...it's almost like it's a male thing...hmmm
I downloaded HER and deleted it a day later because it was just absolutely full of transwomen and "non binary" people who are clearly just male. There was also a lot of transmen - if you want to be a man why on earth are you on an app for WOMEN?
The app itself is also a rip off because you can only left or right swipe a certain number of people a day, and when you're skipping past the numerous males it means you don't get to actually see many women. Useless app. May as well stick to bumble and tinder.
I really do think a lot of these men take advantage of the villianization of terfs to transition and then guilt lesbian and bi women into dating them. They just have watched too much girl on girl porn.
A ridiculous one I was reading some time pretty recently was a self proclaimed "trainsbian" who said how trans women are women (ugh) and then went on to explain that he was concerned that with hrt that his dick would shrink and he would no longer be able to pleasure his future "lesbian" girlfriend. Just the phrase "her penis" that commenters referred it as, irritated me to no end. Now every man with some money can transition and call himself a lesbian and prey on women who want to date women.
Or not even transition and just identify as a women and we get bullied and silenced into having to validate his delusions.
Yeah it's this shit. I've posted on it before... absolutely revolting on so many levels. I guess the scrotes in dresses can f*ck each other now... 🤷🏽♀️
I gave up on dating because of this, lol.