I've been talking to this woman from Tinder (I know) and so far I think she's great and cool and was excited to meet her.
However I'm less excited now because today I asked her what she was up to and she told me she's going on a date with someone else. I've also been seeing other people so this isn't like a possessive thing, it just feels so rude to me? Like if I'm hanging out with another love interest I just lie or say nothing about what I'm doing. She also weirdly told me she didn't know what the "vibe" was if it was a hook-up/booty call situation or a real date (basically letting me know she's maybe on her way to fuck someone).
I'm triggered because the two times in the past someone has been open with the details of going on other dates/sleeping with other people before even the first date (or during the early dating phases), they lead to relationships or situationships where I was blatantly triangulated, my self-esteem eroded which took forever to recover from. I've never had a good relationship with someone who pulled this kind of thing. Rudeness/lack of social intelligence maybe I can overlook but the possibility of being triangulated by someone again legitimately scares me.
I was about to block/delete but part of me wondered if I was being too sensitive? What do you gals think.
Wow, a female scrote