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So I think I’ll be ready to date again soon and my raging bi self who is pretty done with men needs some advice or tips when it comes to dating other women.
I feel that its much safer to date women and overall, they’re way more attractive than men anyway. Most men are crusty and repulses me to no end.
some background deetz: I’ve known I liked other women since I was 14 but have never been in a gay relationship since I‘ve never even met another single, queer woman except for a friend in high school I wasn’t into. seriously, where are the lesbians?? Has the patriarchy sent them into hiding??
Anyway, first off, how can you tell if she’s queer or not?? Or do you have to ask? HOW DO YOU EVEN FLIRT LMAO
Doesn’t help that straight women or past self proclaimed bi friends complimented me as gf material or something along the lines of that or the ”you’re so pretty!! Wife me!!” When they aren’t even into women?
also dating apps are self sobotaging when it comes to looking for HVM, but are there apps ya’ll recommend for wlw dating?
And fellow bi and gay women, how do you apply FDS principles when it comes to wlw relationships?
As a bi woman who’s dated lesbians: the LAST thing you can do to meet and attract a real lesbian is to call her queer. That’s a creepy word heterosexuals use when they want to make themselves spicy straights. It’s literally a slur. Lmao. Also, most of OLD is ugly, creepy unicorn hunting couples. It’s better to meet lesbians in real life like at gay bars or even to check tik tok or ig or whatever social media to find local gays and to see where they hang out. Do you not have any gay friends? That helps, too.