So I’m trying OLD to find women to date. So far, I’ve had like 3 matches and it keeps running out of people. Are there any WLW here who have any app recommendations?
When I swipe as a straight woman, usually it’s like a 70/80% success rate, yet woman only, more like 2%. I feel like a straight man atm 😂
I wonder, I am attractive and have a real profile, so is this lack of matches to do with my looks or do I need to say something specific? I suspect I look too straight. (I have been in gay bars and everyone always assumes I’m straight).
I am skeptical of OLD no matter who is on there. BTW, just because it's WLW doesn't mean she is free from scrote-like/pickme behavior! I have seen it myself.
Remember, men vastly outnumber women on online dating apps. Also, women are visual too, so maybe it's time to change up the pictures.
Head off apps because the majority are couples looking for thirds or women wanting to use you to check ’explore’ their sexuality. You are much better off going to a singles night for women or the lesbian bar.
I too am going through the same issue. And I prefer to meeting people organically which can make it harder lol.
wlw dating apps make me feel unsafe cause the majority of people on them are couples looking for a third or they just want hookups. Maybe you should keep going to gay bars and find someone there. I wouldn't want to be with someone who thinks I "look straight" because that means they're stereotyping anyways.
Maybe everyone has left online dating, there's no protection and it's so abusive on many levels. I can't see your photo but I do believe everyone is attractive physically in some way. Personality is what I used to seek when I was dating over looks though so let your hobbies, lifestyle, morals, life goals shine through in your photos and bio to hopefully find a life long compatible match. Best of luck.
Use WLW specific ones like Her