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Hi Ladies,
Especially any fellow bi FDSers...
I just wanted to point out that being a bi girl is a wonderful reminder not to settle for anything less than awesome in the relationship stakes.
I've been with incredible women who loved me, spoiled me, had so much fun together and treated me like a Queen. I love seeing female-female couples thriving and living their best lives, it makes me so happy.
I am currently in a het relationship (thanks FDS!) with a HVM, but knowing that I could be having an AMAZING time with a female partner makes me only accept the absolute best in male partners--if that makes sense?
I advise to never tell a man you are bi until you have thoroughly vetted him. (Scrotes will take this as an immediate signal of being poly or a unicorn hunter). But a HVM who knows his girl is bi should respect that and also be aware that the bar is HIGH.
Over and over and over again I've wished I were physically/romantically attracted to women.
It's really too bad (for me) that I'm not.
Yes fellow bi girl here! It’s just so hard to find genuinely gay women who are single AND childfree(i’m cf) so I’ve never gotten to experience a wlw relationship 😭 But I agree, makes our standards higher as they should be
I would love to finally experience the love of a woman but I don’t really know how to go about it as I’m not one to “chase”. I just go to roller derby practice and pray real hard. Lol
It's hard to find a hvm so it's a good idea to be a hvw first. Scrotes feel intimidated by hvw and that's a good thing. I feel kind of sad because I could have been treated like a Queen by another woman. Unfortunately i'm not into women. But I've seen two women in a relationship and they don't seem to be married, they have their own lives their own interests. They are like the Earth that needs the sun, or the Ocean that needs the moon, they can spend time without each other but after a certain time they come back together since space is needed to feel at peace.
But when I decided to hang out with women who have bfs it has a whole different vibe, their bf texts them while I'm with them, or he needs to come along too. It's unpleasant and when I ask if they want to go a movies for example they are like " I need to ask first" While with the Bi friend who is married she just shows up and when I ask if she should call her mate she's like "Nah she's taking a nap, I'll tell her where I went when I get home."
But heaps of women nag about their man like I'm their shrink, like he didn't do the dishes and I even heard a woman scold her bf over the phone reminding his place that he's living in her home for free and eats for free so he doesn't get to decide where she can't or can't go.. I'm like girl you're a fool for coddling a man child.
I was told to give women a chance but I don't want to use ppl as test objects, If I'm not bi then It can't be forced. I wished I was though.. I could have been married get pregnant with IVF and start our tight knit family together.
WLW can be lv too. I dated a woman who was so low effort and it was basically like dating a cis het man (she was femme but had that energy - burping, farting, snoring, not planning dates, forget her wallet, shows up late etc)
I have also dated many amazingly wonderful women and married a HVW 💜
I'm curious what your opinion is on FebFem