Abuse in wlw relationships and any vetting strategies?

I realize this post is almost a year old but there aren’t a lot of posts in the bi/lesbian section so I wanted to add a huge red flag for me that can occur in lesbian relationships - age or authority differences.

No, dating a women who is a different generation than you is not less creepy when you’re both women in my experience. 30 year olds do not need to date teenagers, I don’t care if shes the only other pretty lesbian in town Lol.

Alternatively if you’re similar in age but there a large authority disparity - like if your professor or your boss hits on you, it’s a huge red flag.…