My dating app profile is open to both men and women. Funny that there’re tons and tons of couples using women’s account as a disguise to look for threesome. This is so disgusting. Even on Lesbian apps it’s the same thing!! I’ve never seen couple looking for threesome using men’s accounts. I don’t th

So I work in the service industry and yesterday one of my regulars shows up. Let's call her Handmaid. She's pretty friendly with me and we've shared some personal stuff. Not quite friends but pretty good w each other. She's with this dude, let's call him Blossom 😌 And I'm doing my customer servic

I hung out with this very lovely girl last week and I felt like I did everything right for the most part. We got smoothies and went thrifting then I bought her a little Halloween decoration that we planned to paint together on our next date. She was really nice and even kind of suggestive with me. I

About a month ago, I came out as Same-Sex attracted to a female family member of mine. (I'm FebFem) She is a conservative Christian, so I knew she wouldn't "agree with" my attraction. Honestly, I didn't need her to agree; I just needed her to respect my autonomy. Thankfully, the conversation went mu

It's full of trans women. The CEO is a piece of trash who calls biological women who like biological women transphobes and terfs because we don't want men with dicks who dress as women on the app. The CEO isn't even a lesbian herself. We need our own apps. I'm sick of WLW dating apps being taken ov

There's this girl I was friends with because we had very similar interests and it's hard for me to find people who like the same things as me. After hanging out with her consistently for about a month, I decided to distance myself from her because I was scared to catch feelings for her (she had a bf

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I was wondering if any lesbians or bi women had tips on how to find girlfriends/female partners who hold radfem or radfem-leaning politics A lot of "lesbian" or "LGBT" dating apps are a cesspool of liberal feminist bs Thanks in advance 😊

hi all, im somewhat newly divorced from a man (a year and a few months separated, 7 months since finalized) and in my mid-20s. I've only been with men but have been questioning my sexuality the past few years. While I was married, I admitted to myself that I was bisexual and just accepted I wasn't g

I have a huge crush on my friend. We're both bi and we've been friends for about a year. She broke up with her bf of two years about a month ago and still seems really sad about it. He broke her heart. It wasn't a healthy relationship because they would always break up with each other and get back t

I recently realise I may be attracted to women besides men. I know FDS tells us not to think of men with a scarcity mindset, but let's be honest, HVM are a minority. The number of HVW simply outnumber HVM so some of us are bond to be single. I had crushes back when I was unwoke and all of them turne

I have a idea about female only spaces. Subject 1) I have an acquaintance with (whom I keep minimal contact) who is a transwoman. I met them online when we took in new recruits for a gaming group (big mistake for so many other reasons). This person hid who they were at the beginning which is easy t

So I’m trying OLD to find women to date. So far, I’ve had like 3 matches and it keeps running out of people. Are there any WLW here who have any app recommendations? When I swipe as a straight woman, usually it’s like a 70/80% success rate, yet woman only, more like 2%. I feel like a straight man a

I'm deeply saddened to read this. What do you girls think ? And do you have any vetting strategies to share ?

Are women afraid of falling in love with each other? Most men can't even please a woman in bed, and most don't even bother to look up ways to please their partner. I feel gay men's relationships are promoted everywhere in TV, music, books, etc than women being in love with other women. Also, it f

I've been talking to this woman from Tinder (I know) and so far I think she's great and cool and was excited to meet her. However I'm less excited now because today I asked her what she was up to and she told me she's going on a date with someone else. I've also been seeing other people so this isn

I am bi and I only have experience with men. And a couple of them aren't excited by the idea of giving women oral and they focus on "muh dick". Some avoid it altogether and don't do it ever, some others do it occasionally but expect the woman to give oral every time. Giving oral to a woman is very s

General psychology of trans women I've dated a handful of transwomen (around 8 or so. It's a large amount considering how few there are) I live in a wealthier area where white people just have time to waste on unproductive identities and "finding themselves" so I've just coincidentally dated that m

I saw a bartender I see sometimes around the area and I was going to ask her out but idk if she's gay. I saw her at the mall the other day in Ambercrombie and Fitch when I was making fun of the price tags with my mom and idk would it be weird to flirt with her next time I go to that certain bar? I'

I had oral surgery and I have a week off and I feel like an idiot for trying to date rn. Got bored. I created dating profiles to date women again and immediately all I got was likes from trans women and cis men (despite filters.). I've had plenty of experience dating trans women and it was honestly

Hi there! I was working on making some simple icons, but with colors from the lesbian flag! I'm still messing around with some ideas, but I wanted to share recently made art with y'all! I hope y'all like my art! Feel free to use it for anything! (For the star's central points, I used true white(#fff

Hi Ladies, Especially any fellow bi FDSers... I just wanted to point out that being a bi girl is a wonderful reminder not to settle for anything less than awesome in the relationship stakes. I've been with incredible women who loved me, spoiled me, had so much fun together and treated me like a Q

So I think I’ll be ready to date again soon and my raging bi self who is pretty done with men needs some advice or tips when it comes to dating other women. I feel that its much safer to date women and overall, they’re way more attractive than men anyway. Most men are crusty and repulses me to no e

I recently discovered I can be attracted to women after coming across a wlw story. I now fantasise about having a girlfriend instead of a boyfriend but I don't know if this has to do with me wanting to escape from LVM Should I try to date women? I understand women can be LV too and I don't know if

I was in the kink community last year and the experiences traumatized me. We have pride month in my Country this year and this is extremely triggering for me. Today an official organization for disabled queer people posted a picture showing BDSM as something beautiful and safe. I can't take it any

Since the topic got started, I wanted to share how I take FDS into WLW as a bisexual woman. Obviously, most red flags for men translate over to women: Bad communication, always late, not financially stable, poor mental health, no friends, no meaningful hobbies, lacks proper hygiene, cruel to animal