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My take is that this article is good, but like all other dating advice it completely ignore male-female oppression dynamics. Let's be honest no scrote is gonna read this, it's women(who have been trained to be pickmes since birth) who are gonna read it since "yOu aTTrAcT wHaT YoU ArE" and she thinks she's the problem in the realtionship.
I decided to post this because it reminded me of that old post about men weaponizing psychology terms against women. Again, I like to state that I don't blame to author or says they're sexist or anything. That post just came to mind.
#2 sounds like being rehab centers for men.
#4, the Horns Effect...come on. a relationship could be great until the guy cheats, or forces himself on you, or starts showing your nude photos to his friends, and you're just supposed to be positive and focus on the silver lining? um, no.
thanks for linking to the attachment theory post! it's so articulately written and touches on some really great points in the comments.
This article sounded to me like “blah blah blah,” and ComUNIcAte. And I agree w you - men won’t read it, even though they are 99.9% of the problem in relationships.