Hello, ladies. I hope at least one person keeps following these posts with real life examples that highlight the importance of strategizing.
The first case in this series is linked below:
https://mobile.twitter.com/MrsJellySantos/status/1638323661856821255?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw%7Ctwcamp%5Etweetembed%7Ctwterm%5E1638323661856821255%7Ctwgr%5E%7Ctwcon%5Es1_&ref_url=
If the thread gets deleted, the videos in the Twitter thread show a woman detailing her husband cheating on her at a strip club. The next video is an update begging the people who called her husband's job to try to get him fired to stop. Teary eyed, she emphasizes that she still relies on her husband for his income and has children to support. Her husband also told her to leave her videos up, which is VERY noteworthy.
As the title says: Don't burn the house down while you're still in it.
1. She has no source of income outside of her husband.
2. She is so isolated (likely due to her marriage), that her first instinct was to tell strangers online about this; she likely has no solid, non-judgemental women in her life to help her plan or even support her emotionally.
3. She left evidence on social media showing her face and revealing locations. Her husband is probably planning to use her videos against her in a custody battle, which is why he encouraged her to leave them up. It seems possible for a good lawyer to spin what happened as an intentional targeted harassment campaign against him to portray her as too emotionally unstable to take care of their children.
After she found out about his cheating, it would have been best for her to live with him like nothing is wrong and secretly plot and keep collecting as much evidence as possible. Secretly starting a small part-time job and stashing the money away from him would also put her in a better position. Family house sitting (https://our-kids.com/family-house-sitting/) would be a nice excuse to get away from him with the kids for cheap for long stretches and try to pretend like it's "just to give you your down time and a break from the chaos." As a cheater, he would welcome this for obvious reasons.
But after the explosive Tik Tok she made, she'll just have to find a miracle worker at a women's charity to get herself out of this or find some way to persuade him into not divorce-shafting her.
Don't let social media be your judge and jury. They're dumb civilians, so it can backfire.
Nothing is free in this world, ESPECIALLY not from men.
I hope this post encouraged you to not fuck around and find out.
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Lesson & Example #1: Don't burn the house down while you're still in it
Lesson & Example #1: Don't burn the house down while you're still in it
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Sorry to this woman, but this is a prime example of why women must master their emotions as part of their level up journey.
It feels so good to unleash like this in the moment, but it doesn't serve women — it's used against us.
Had her emotions been in check, this would have been the start of her Gone Girl montage where she bamboozled him and got the last laugh. That's the FDS way.
"Her husband also told her to leave her videos up, which is VERY noteworthy."
You had me worried when you said this because I thought you had interpreted it as him being remorseful (and this is probably what he's telling her- "Oh, honey. I would never want you to take those down. You were right, I was wrong.") But you totally get it. He's collecting evidence to screw her over in family court.
I am SO glad I didn't have social media during my divorce. It would have been way too tempting to use it as an outlet, but it would have worked against me in so many ways. It didn't matter that my ex was smearing me all over social media. We women do not have that luxury!
It is so disgusting that men can blow up our families with their cheating (and all other manners of abuse) and that we have to then cope with seeing our children only half the time (if at all, the way father's rights movements are going) and oftentimes give up our hard-earned cash as well (which they will not use for the kids, but for porn).
Wow- and here I thought marrying and man and being a stay at home mom was a great thing with so many benefits 🤔. I bet she was one of those ladies who thought something like this could never happen to her no matter how many times she was warned.