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Just met a colleague who, pre-FDS, I would have been all over. Except now, I know that he's too flakey to be taken seriously.
He's:
turning 41 soon
lived abroad
gorgeous car
good looking
ambitious
very tall (so rare to meet a guy taller than me)
no kids (AMENNNNN)
never been married but had long term relationships
makes decent money; decent career
easy to talk to
acts like a man when out and about
doesn't online date, he asks out women in person
has complained about people being poly
Sounds great, right?
However... weeks away from 41 and he still doesn't know if he wants to move to another city (or which city it would be) or have kids. Like, huh? And he doesn't own his own place. I do, so should you, boy.
I don't know him well enough to know if he's HV, but that's not my problem.
The point is - Ladies, they do exist, but you won't find them on OLD.
At this point, any person who owns a nice car but not a home is a walking red flag to me. It's just poor investing and it also reeks of show-boating/faking wealth.
This plus all the other traits you listed about him not settling down and not knowing the answers to permanent life altering decisions just reaffirms my conclusion.