This is all true, especially the last one. I'm still annoyed about a conversation I had recently with my pickme cousin. I was telling her about a coworker that totally talked down to me. I said "I thought he was a nice guy, but I guess he's just a douche." Well OF COURSE she had to then talk down to me. "Oh, you know- I used to be that way. I'd call men jerks or douches when they were rude. But then I realized that everybody's got their own struggles. He was probably having a hard day." I wanted to say, "Oh, I wish I was as enlightened as you! I guess you've just come a lot farther than I have in life. Maybe I'll get to your level some day." FFS I'm so tired of everyone.
What I find sad when this happens is... what about ME? Where is your empathy for ME? You're meant to be my sister, friend, cousin or whatever and here you are with your first impulse being to protect some random guy from criticism. There is just something so disgusting and vomit inducing about this for me.
I told ppl that if they can't behave for whatever reason they need to go away and come back when they can. Nobody should make me feel uneasy with their attitude.
Then they said but you should accept a persons bad moods too if you truly love them. I'm like yes I accept that you are human and not evryone can be happy every day but I'm not a punching bag or emotional clutch. Sort yourself out, if you can't do it alone then talk to a professional but I'm not going to stay and catch all the blows. There are so many men who look back fondly over how understanding and patient their spouse are and how they listened to them rant.
Sorry I don't want that. Life is bad enough without people in it, I'm using things like fantasy to escape reality all the time. your problems aren't mine and you are supposed to be compatible not draining.
It's like asking for peace is like asking men to climb the great wall of China.
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This is all true, especially the last one. I'm still annoyed about a conversation I had recently with my pickme cousin. I was telling her about a coworker that totally talked down to me. I said "I thought he was a nice guy, but I guess he's just a douche." Well OF COURSE she had to then talk down to me. "Oh, you know- I used to be that way. I'd call men jerks or douches when they were rude. But then I realized that everybody's got their own struggles. He was probably having a hard day." I wanted to say, "Oh, I wish I was as enlightened as you! I guess you've just come a lot farther than I have in life. Maybe I'll get to your level some day." FFS I'm so tired of everyone.
I told ppl that if they can't behave for whatever reason they need to go away and come back when they can. Nobody should make me feel uneasy with their attitude.
Then they said but you should accept a persons bad moods too if you truly love them. I'm like yes I accept that you are human and not evryone can be happy every day but I'm not a punching bag or emotional clutch. Sort yourself out, if you can't do it alone then talk to a professional but I'm not going to stay and catch all the blows. There are so many men who look back fondly over how understanding and patient their spouse are and how they listened to them rant.
Sorry I don't want that. Life is bad enough without people in it, I'm using things like fantasy to escape reality all the time. your problems aren't mine and you are supposed to be compatible not draining.
It's like asking for peace is like asking men to climb the great wall of China.
Looooove it. So glad I don't actually see this shit on mine because my friends and I only like all the based stuff! (Well most of my friends 🙈)