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Imagine being a low value man with high expectations for the sorts of women you can attract and keep around you:
You’ve seen one too many movies (written by socially recluse rejected men) where the awkward loser bags a woman who looks like a VS model and takes pity on him. You too, have decided this is your Male birthright ™
You start to internalize this Hollywood delusion and go around chasing the skirts of women much better looking, more confident, savvier, with more options than you....and fail, often.
Resentment ensues.
These women seem ‘mean’, hostile and have high self esteem- they don’t respond well to your entitlement to their bodies. They’ve seen all your tricks before. They get harassed by low value men like you, with nefarious intentions, all of the time. It’s tiring. They are not in the mood to respond to all of them, all of the time....and also this would make them a ‘cheap easy whore’ even if they did in the LVM’s eyes...and expose them to various STI’s and unwanted pregnancy .
This LVM is one of many flying at them...and rather than just take the L and go about his life after shooting his shot (which admittedly was a reach for him anyway)....he begins to hate women. He becomes enraged his entitlement is not being met with immediate passivity and pandering...like he saw in that movie once. Movies are real life, nO?
Rather than being more realistic about the sorts of women he approaches or working on himself to become a better man...he begins to hang his head in shame and festers deep within the bubbling manosphere where all LVM gather together to squawk about their self-imposed oppression suffered from the lack of fresh victims to manipulate ... and to justify their endless entitled hypocritical waffle about how they’re such victims of feminism, like a giant shared cope for the wilfully delusional and ignorant to feast on.
To them: women’s sexual agency is a direct attack on their manhood. They must find ways to get around it: lie, devalue, neg, triangulate, gaslight, deceive. Anything to forcibly get their pee pee stroked and avoid self reflection.
All despite the fact they could easily become a better man and have an ongoing healthy sexual relationship.
The LVM wants the impossible to happen.
A sea of never ending attractive passive women out of his league willing to lower their standards and become his personal pornified test dummy to stroke his ego on demand....but also a steady supply of endlessly patient, low N count, prideful, smart, beautiful, trusting, untarnished submissive women with their legs crossed patiently waiting for their dear future LVM to grow tired of slinging his peen around and grow the hell up.
Women with respect who don’t give it up easy (but he won’t be expected to have to invest in- as clearly that makes them an ‘entitled gold digging whore’ : am I right?!) for whenever he finds a use for them outside of being a sex doll to pump his ego for man points. For whenever he wants a free therapist and someone of substance to lean on.
The LVM wants to get his cake, and eat it.
When this doesn’t happen, he starts to play dirty. He laments the choices of single mothers and single women, but yet he does his very best to break their esteem down, manipulate them and get into their panties, claiming falsely sincere intentions that damage them and give them long standing trust issues with the opposite sex....making them 50 x more hostile and on guard to the next man also wanting his ‘chance’.
When that all blows up in his face- he blames their choices- successfully acquitting him of any personal responsibility and how he (with many other LVMs) personally contributed to women's hostility.
Even on the offset they give you a chance out of kindness- they soon you sniff out and reject you, because you’re entitled and narcissistic, lacking in key communication skills and the ability to reciprocate...,or the willingness to treat a women properly and fairly long term (behavior he expects from a woman, hypocritically).
Naturally they get bored and decide they want to move on: they view you as a negative investment / deadweight. Something they could rather do without dragging them down.
Ofc to the bitter LVM this translates as : ‘these superficial bitches don’t want me no more hUh- they think the grass is greener hUh. I’ll show thEm’
You start to become disgruntled, insecure and jealous. Why can’t you have as much casual sex as that super hot attractive guy MOST women find attractive? How come he gets more opportunities for woo woo time? Is it because he’s super hot and most women find him attractive upping his options and chances? Is it because he’s more confident and less entitled? Is it because you’re not HIM?! 🤯🤯🤯🤯
Surely...it cannot be. Surely my mother cannot be lying to me and I’m not the best looking catch in the room at all times. Surely it cannot be the case I am just another average entitled delusional guy trying to get in this women’s drawers, and on this occasion she has decided not to entertain me...which is odd given I view myself as gods gift to women...and the fact they cannot all agree on this simultaneously to accommodate my fragile ego on demand...tells me these women are simply stupid and callous (Scoff).
They are in denial of my greatness and irresistible charm. How dare they express sexual agency over who ends up in their vagina but also: fuck single mothers it’s their fault for trusting these losers. This should be criminalized. Bring back enforced monogamy (even tho I don’t want to truly be monogamous till at least 43)!
Women should let me lie and use them as pornified test dummies until I want to grow up. They shouldn’t have any expectations for a relationship when I expect to take them off the market ad for them to be exclusive to me, only ME.
It’s all about me me me, everything that suits me and whatever fleeting mood I’m in that moment.
Keep your legs crossed stupid women! But also: fuck me on demand you stuck up ****! Lol what hypocrisy? MisAnDrY!
It has to be part of an elaborate global feminist conspiracy to turn men into ‘cucks’ that actually show love and respect to women (scoff- lol a functioning society has no use for this- doesn’t benefit me) and deny self proclaimed nice guys like MYSELF from rightfully getting their pee pee stroked.
How could my seething entitlement, lies and hypocrisy not be met by women (out of my league) with mass warm reception? Puzzling. Utterly bewildering. Ridiculous. I object!!!
I am being HOEPRESSED!! This is what feminism has done to us brothers!!! Rollo tomassi told me so!!! Women don’t want to be our free sex workers now? Abhorrent! MisAnDrYYY!!
Why can’t you get laid by every hot woman you personally lay eyes upon? Life........is so UNFAIR. I’m really really good looking: mommy dearest told me so.
These women are DENYING your Male birth right to rape them - why can’t they play along and spread their legs like a nice sweet submissive passive feminine girl? I am a nIcE gUy!!!!
All women should respond warmly to me...even if they don’t remotely fancy me, find me rude and disrespectful or just can’t be bothered with Male attention that day...or they think I’m just yet another manipulative user getting in their pants to get my ego stroked for pornsicko league points from the manosphere (which I definitely am but will claim I am not).
Hmmm, ‘these bitches are stuck up feminazi’s’, he says to himself. I am a nIcE gUy- that’s why I ignore women’s disinterest and boundaries (their wants, needs, desires and lack of attraction to me is irrelevant)...and proceed to ignore them because it’s all about me, my dick and my fragile fee fee’s.
They should be willing to serve me, put up with my low effort lip service, wandering eyes, dire personality and shady lack of commitment. Who wouldn’t keep themselves off the market for that?
Do ladies really thing singlehood promotes more wellness than being subjugated, used and strung along by LVM like me? Wow- the feminazis got to you bad huh.
insert nervous laugh
I’m gonna show these bitches who’s boss.
LVM creates DOM profile on Bumble after endless hours fapping to violent porn videos
Lol I ....AM A HEALTHY MAN! A great catch! These women don’t know what they’re missing- clearly they can’t smell my inherent inferiority complex a mile off. Clearly it’s because they’re stuck up entitled *****
Hahaha 😈I have found a way to control and dominate women...and legitimize my outward hatred and seething resentment of their agency. Now I can use BDSM to pressure them into degrading, dangerous and uncomfortable positions for my personal sexual gratification and amusement.
Violence against women is sexy now- didn’t you get the memo? Now I can finally feel in control over these puny little sassy women, with their needless boundaries and standards, who used to reject me. How DaRE!!!! they offend my fragile ego.
Now I can laugh as they struggle to breathe as their eyes well up in fear, as they fight to get off me begging for me to let go like the little submissive they are...and finally see who’s their real DADDY.
Now I can finally feel like the ultimate misogynist that giant wimp Rollo tomassi told me I could be. Now, I feel like a MAN!
Now I can spit on, strangle and slap these whores to my hearts content with no repercussions because it’s consensual abuse remember ;) if they don’t comply I’ll just find another more emotionally damaged impressionable young woman to subjugate- you know instead of just getting over my blatant insecurities and becoming a man with healthy esteem.
Instead of getting over my entitlement and subsequent well deserved rejections. That seems like far too much trouble for a man of my superiority...and would actually require me to step outside my comforting self-victimizing ignorant bubble of delusion. Too much work! BDSM it is!
Now I don’t feel like a small little over entitled butt hurt loser anymore. I have a way to express outward revenge in the safety of my own ‘super edgy’ misogynist BDSM community, for fellow mentally unhinged coping losers like me.
Anything can be justified now- so long as you put the word ‘kink’ after it! Child pornography ‘kink’, rape roleplay ‘kink’, hot wax dripping on her back ‘kink’, slapping her senseless ‘kink’, strangling her till she goes blue ‘kink’, anal rape ‘kink’, pissing on her face cos you saw it on porn ‘kink’!
The opportunities for sadism and sexual abuse are endless! This would all be legally considered as misogynist abuse in the eyes of the law, without socially pressuring women for ‘consent’ and conditioning them into seeing it as some coOL sExY fad to get around the insanity that it truly is. Stop being a prude!
Now turn over and let me whip your back whilst I moan hEhE! And these gullible pickmeisha’s are happy to go along with it because they fear I’ll leave if they don’t! Haha these whores are so dumb- if only they know what I truly think of them deep down. I definitely do not respect women, one fucking bit. Just make sure you use that magic safe word (KINK!) as the get out card!
Woopssssy if a few slip through the net and stop breathing, I’ll just claim it was all an accident to get a lighter sentence and it was these dumb whores fault for having sex with, me, a self proclaimed nice guy.
A delusion I cling onto for dear life to avoid facing the brutal reality I’m a deeply disturbed angry sociopath Manlet with severely fragile esteem. Who needs therapy when you can take out all your anger and physically abuse women via BDSM?!
insert nervous laugh gOsh, I’m suCh An aLpHA dOG!
Shhhh....don’t tell anyone my secret! Now be a good little girl and secure your chains for daddy!
More links on the very real life harms of BDSM and its links to the rise in domestic violence, femicide and the rise of men claiming 'death by sex gone wrong' as a defense to get lighter sentences for murdering women:
https://www.theguardian.com/society/2019/jul/25/fatal-hateful-rise-of-choking-during-sex
https://www.theweek.co.uk/99903/why-is-domestic-violence-on-the-rise
https://www.theguardian.com/law/2019/nov/22/concern-over-use-rough-sex-gone-wrong-defence-uk-courts
https://wecantconsenttothis.uk/
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This could be cleared up if men had a morsel of self-awareness.
Culture has screamed in women's faces how horrible we are since the beginning of time, so we've been forced to work our way through this bullshit. But men? Nevvverrrr have they had their humanity or body up for debate, so they don't know how it feels.
Hence, they go for the lowest common denominator: BDSM
Oooff. This one is like a punch in the gut. True and terrifying. Thanks for posting.