Who the fuck do I vote for when Republicans are banning abortion (& trying to ban IUD), but Democrats are decimating female only spaces?

I almost feel like the body autonomy issue is more detrimental since the trans people are such a small percent of the population. I went thru a weird "moderately conservative" phase during lockdown before realizing I had been psy-oped into voting against my own body autonomy with republicans trying to ban iuds, plan B and abortion. So now I vote liberal but I get confused when I see any woman voting Republican. I assume she is enjoying access to birth control and abortion while assuming it will never affect her, maybe she is married or has a nice religious family that would support her if she became pregnant? I don't fuckin know but it's depressing