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Stop posting male depravity content, for god‘s sake!

I’m sick and tired of it and don‘t get it. There‘s been enough posts from valuable members in the last months talking about leaving FDS finally behind because of all the depravity content.

Nobody cares about what incel xyz commented on incel abc‘s video.

Nobody cares what a MGTOW scrote posted on reddit.

Nobody cares what a pick me on reddit has to say about her boyfriend.

WE DON‘T WANNA KNOW!

We all know that on the internet all of the most vile misogynist men come together. But what‘s the point of confronting yourself with it? What’s the point of giving them your precious feminine energy and time?

How does it benefit you?

FDS is about getting inspired by other women to live your best life, about having a community where we can sometimes vent and cry about problems that affect us IN REAL LIFE. Not some stupid misogyny content that YOU confronted yourself with when you could spend the time decentering men by focusing on YOURSELF.

It took some time for me to completely whipe out misogynist propaganda from my life (music, books, movies, depravity content on reddit et cetera) as FDS suggests. It‘s so sad that FDS, a community that I owe so much, ends up being the last platform I would have to leave to decenter from men‘s bullshit.

Sorry for the big rant but this has been on my mind for a while. I would love to see the dynamic here switch to a more positive and elevating vibe (more like FDS reddit). Don‘t get me wrong, there‘s been some amazing posts in the last months too. But if you are someone who shares this type of content PLEASE think about how it negatively affects our community as a whole.

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Unknown member

Feb 28

We should have the option to block the parts of the forum that we don't want to see. We should be able to block the posts of members we don't want to see. Reddit has these features.

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Unknown member

Feb 28

I agree 100%.

This forum should be about dating strategy primarily (hence the name of this site), not a daily catalogue of random scrotes.

R.ice.queen

Feb 29

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I learned that when I was constantly obsessing over male depravity content (and sharing it to complain to others about it), then I hadn’t fully mastered the block-and-delete mindset. It meant I was still letting scrotes get to me and that men were still the centre of my life.

And all that energy I could’ve poured into curating a HV life went towards fussing over stupid people on reddit.

But I see both sides. I wouldn’t be who I am today if it wasn’t for that “angry/triggered” stage first. So I think we could benefit from moderating this content, just so it doesn’t run rampant on here as many women are just trying to move forward with their lives.

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Blackrabbit

Feb 28

It's become too hateful, I like a good meme that pokes fun out of LV behaviour but anything further than that is silly and annoying. I want genuinely good advice and a supportive women's only forum not a constant reminder that the "scrotes" and "pick mes" exist.

And why are there so many OLD posts? People here are literally

-following a site that advises against OLD

-proceeding to post on site about OLD asking for advice or ranting about it

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Unknown member

Mar 01

B and D FDS, Queen. It's abusively neglecting all of our absolute needs for validation and inner peace.

Glistening Nebula

Mar 01

I only lurk occasionally but posts like this are worth responding to.

Please let's go back to reddit we deserve our own space anywhere, Reddit has a higher reach and reddit is the reason why im interested in FDS and this site is the reason why I will log off completely one day and not even Lurk here.

There are sh!theads everywhere, on tiktok, reddit, instagram even on wix websites and on the streets you can't escape it but you can be a shining light in the universe of every woman.

Handbook related or inspired posts are allowed and dating strategy.

but only once a week we can post scrote nonsense, and silly men, nice guy mask slips for our entertainment, or rants, We make a Sunday thread where women can ask their questions too so that every woman feel that they can post whatever they prefer on Sunday, share books and podcast video's, de centering men video's (such as this one) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1DlkI5RFQV0

to avoid annoying other members who want to level up and the women who don't want to read scrote and male deprivation posts know when to expect these posts.

I know that if you want a change then you need to start with yourself but I'm willing to be a mod, start a new reddit sub for women only everyone here is willing to join I'm willing to safeguard our women space where Frankenstein transvestites have no say.

Please before FDS fades away and manosphere make more victims, before this train wreck can't be saved anymore. We are supposed to be the competition of the manosphere not a tiny blip in their delulu universe.

This will be my final plea I will not continue asking for a change if it's just going to fall on deaf ears.

Okay I had my say, peace out. I'm still hoping for the best.

Glistening Nebula

Mar 01

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A FDS discord or a new private Reddit sub can save this sinking ship. Members can join by proving it with voice chat to avoid creeps from invading our space. But we need to do it as a group I can't do it alone. First wave feminism, dating strategy will be shared and scote posts on Sunday. If all of us here join and try to convince the women who are still following the sub on reddit to join then I'll have my faith restored in the future, We won't sell training programs like Andrew Tit or the Smellyandunfit manoids, or share video's about influencers who ask for money.

We share, provide and teach for free.

No Timmies and rainbow transvestites allowed.

With other words let FDS be about dating again.

Unknown member

Mar 01

Replying to

Holy crap, why do we not have a discord?!?!

Glistening Nebula

Mar 02

Replying to

I'm asking myself the same thing, I want to do it, I want to create a discord and a new sub on reddit for FDS, we keep the post free from triggering the malets and we can go off in the comment sections, where I'll be a mod and safe guard the space from manoids and trolls.

But like I said I can't do it alone, I need the help of others. Like people who don't stubbornly cling onto a sinking ship or hoping FDS will come back on Reddit because it won't.

Let's come together and leave this behind is all I'm saying.

The name Queens and their crowns seem less triggering to the manoids and they won't try to get rid of the sub while we privately talk about dating and have some fun on Sunday.

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Kaydeekakkoii

Mar 01

to deliberately look for male depravity is strange. it’s giving miserable because theres so many other positive things a woman can be focusing on one being herself.

sadly it may be a woman who simply cares about what other people think. and that takes a lot of inner work i'm sure. i don't care about what they think because the opinion of stupid people would destroy my brain cells if i paid it attention 😅

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All_or_nothing

Mar 01

Thank you.

Unknown member

Feb 29

I disagree with this.

If we weren't supposed to post male depravity content, it wouldn't be a tag option.

Old Reddit FDS was CONSTANTLY churning blackpill about males, and it's important to not live in la la land about what we're all dealing with.

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Blackrabbit

Mar 01

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You have a point about the tag existing however there's 2 types of male depravity posts I see :

The type of post that serves as an eye opener and gives useful advice, tips and insights about men eg a manipulation tactic (as seen on the Reddit page)
The other type of male depravity posts that are mostly on here that talk about things we all know men tend to do , and all these posts accomplish is making you depressed (as seen on here)

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Unknown member

Mar 01

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I would add that the people who post type 2 content do not seem to want to strategize or implement FDS-aligned advice. They post because they want attention and do not intend to change their pickme behavior.

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hamburgerfries

Mar 01

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Well, I fall into an ambiguous 3rd category. I'm not experienced in the dating world in spite of my age (has to do with an unusual upbringing) and there are times where I feel I have to ask about a particular male behavior that I may witness in the real world, to see if it is scrote behavior and what to do about it - yet if we're getting critical of posting things about scrote behavior, where can I really ask about it? It's not like I can go to Reddit. What if someone needs to ask important questions about how to deal with a certain man's behavior, let alone how to perceive it? I'm here not necessarily to date, but to learn about what male behavior to absolutely avoid, so that I can stay safe, and sane.

Stop posting male depravity content, for god‘s sake!

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