Immediately having a girlfriend always makes me suspicious that he was just cheating on her long before he ever asked about opening the relationship.
I find the "hot young women LOVE older men because daddy issues!" so funny because men lie to themselves that it's because women find them hot, when really it's about money. Is there the rare case of some woman who genuinely thinks old/older men are hot regardless of how they look? Sure. But if there's no money involved, they have to be attractive and charming, which most of these men are not. And minus those two things, they need to have that $$$.
The Hot Young Women (TM) in the city that I see out and about? 90% of the time they're with another hot guy their own age. If they're with an older man that isn't their literal dad, he very clearly is someone WITH MONEY or appears to be an escort situation. I see it happen this way with gay men as well. The oldest they might go is 10+ years older than them if the guy is hot, otherwise they're only hooking up with old men shamefully in the dead of night or openly in the light of day IF the guy has money, vacation homes, plane tickets, dinners, etc. to share.
TBH, the only time I see this fantasy of young woman with older man actually happpening, is with weird perverts online. And - I know this is mean of me (I promise I don't typically judge women negatively on appearances) - usually they're women who aren't that conventionally attractive. I say that because these old farts act like they're pulling IG models all day when really it's the poor girl from your college math class with self esteem issues who thinks she's living this kinky lifestyle, who doesn't know she deserves better, when really she's being used by a disgusting old pervert.
He 100% was already cheating when he brought up the open relationship. If a man wants "polyamory" he's already cheating on you. (the same could probably also be said for women tbh)
Loving all the women in the comments calling out the scrote who says older men have more options than older women on his cope/bs.
Immediately having a girlfriend always makes me suspicious that he was just cheating on her long before he ever asked about opening the relationship.
I find the "hot young women LOVE older men because daddy issues!" so funny because men lie to themselves that it's because women find them hot, when really it's about money. Is there the rare case of some woman who genuinely thinks old/older men are hot regardless of how they look? Sure. But if there's no money involved, they have to be attractive and charming, which most of these men are not. And minus those two things, they need to have that $$$.
The Hot Young Women (TM) in the city that I see out and about? 90% of the time they're with another hot guy their own age. If they're with an older man that isn't their literal dad, he very clearly is someone WITH MONEY or appears to be an escort situation. I see it happen this way with gay men as well. The oldest they might go is 10+ years older than them if the guy is hot, otherwise they're only hooking up with old men shamefully in the dead of night or openly in the light of day IF the guy has money, vacation homes, plane tickets, dinners, etc. to share.
TBH, the only time I see this fantasy of young woman with older man actually happpening, is with weird perverts online. And - I know this is mean of me (I promise I don't typically judge women negatively on appearances) - usually they're women who aren't that conventionally attractive. I say that because these old farts act like they're pulling IG models all day when really it's the poor girl from your college math class with self esteem issues who thinks she's living this kinky lifestyle, who doesn't know she deserves better, when really she's being used by a disgusting old pervert.
He 100% was already cheating when he brought up the open relationship. If a man wants "polyamory" he's already cheating on you. (the same could probably also be said for women tbh)
Bwhahaha.
These types of posts give me life 😂
hahahahah it's true.
Polyamory is a scam and I live for stories like this.