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I’m tired of hearing men warning everyone “having lots of single men is dangerous for society”. They never propose any solutions that fall on the shoulders of men, which is what they should be doing if they want to bring that up. It ends up implying they think it should fall on the shoulders of women to save society from the incel movement. The thing is, these men are dangerous whether they are single or not. When they are in a relationship with a woman, they direct their violence towards her and it’s usually contained within the domestic environment. When a man like this becomes an incel, he’s more likely to direct violence towards society. To act concerned about the incel threat to society, while ignoring the elephant in the room (domestic violence) is misogynistic as fuck, but there’s no point in trying to get these people to understand. They’ll never be on our side, so all we can do is educate ourselves. We as women need to be equipped to deflect any pressure put on us to serve as barriers between society and incels, and it starts with identifying the common messages used to brainwash us:
• any type of “give him a chance” propaganda. I’ve been hearing things like “give short men a chance”, “give broke men a chance”, etc.
• any type of shaming for having standards. “You’re asking for too much”, “you’re shallow for liking chads”, “you’re a gold digger for wanting a man with a good job”
• encouragement to give men the benefit of the doubt when they disappoint you. “Maybe you didn’t communicate well enough”, “maybe he’s having a hard time”, “maybe he’ll come around”, “maybe he didn’t know”
• sex positive propaganda to make more women available to men. “You should use tinder”, “oh he asked for an open relationship? Consider saying yes”, “casual sex is empowering”
Anything I left out? Please share.
Having lots of men is dangerous for society. If they are single, their violence spills on to the streets. If women are forced to pair up with them, they terrorize their family. Then the violence is contained and hidden in the domestic realm. Sophisticated societies would have initiation rites for young men, where some large percentage die. Horrendous yes. I didn't make the rules.
yeah I don't like how their violent acts always get blamed on women again with the whole "if only some woman let herself be used by this guy, he wouldn't have shot this place up." Most of those killers don't even do anything to be remotely attractive to the opposite sex. I can't fathom to think if some random guy just decides to go on a rampage next door to me, it'll somehow be my fault because I didn't open myself for him. Like who TF?
There's the shame tactic they use of: "you have a troubled past, you need help" when you're calling them out for abusing you. Twist projection thingy, can't remember what it's called. Basically to silence the woman defending herself. Whether she had an abusive past or not, she wasn't the abuser, more than likely that was a man. It's emotionally abusive of this current guy to victim blame and shame her, even when he does not know anything about her or her past.
It's almost as if they need hobbies! 🙄
The ones who say this are almost NEVER improving their communities in some way. Oh so you've noticed a social problem have you? What are you doing about it? Engaging in volunteer work? Strengthening your community with group events? Reaching out to young men to mentor them? No? Then STFU !
Well heck; if they're that concerned about too many single men, I've got a solution! It will satisfy the women and appease the macho, testosterone burdened.
We could bring back the gladiator ring, swords and armor. Pit them against each other in to-the-death fights. Last one standing gets a fuck.
Women are expected to be the sandbags political scrotes use to keep the flood of incels from terrorizing other men.
The key point definitely is these guys are dangerous whether or not they are single.
I've lost count of the number of times some mass killer has a history of domestic abuse.
So getting a woman as a punching bag doesn't even keep them sated. They went on to become mass killers anyway.
We're not human to them, so this is like that thing serial killers do where they torture animals first as some kind of practice run.
In short there is absolutely no good reason to give them any women to abuse.
They seem to think just because there are single women, every man is entitled to one. This is especially hilarious because they love to cite bIoLoGy, but it doesn't even work that way.
1: In almost every species, the MALES work to impress the FEMALES. The women choose between the best mates, who look the best, provide the best nests or security, etc. And if they don't find one to their standards? They don't pair up!
And that leads me to 2: No species has 100% pairings. Even monogamous species I mean, there will always be individual animals that don't manage to pair up or reproduce. It's just the way that nature works.
It's always the woman's fault, never the man's, but men set up society in this way. They encourage other men to fuck around, not commit, use porn, etc. and then get upset that women aren't clamouring for marriage and babies (while also being upset that the women that they use are "whores", cock carousel, blah blah blah).
It's *male expectations* that are dangerous for society, imho lol
I was told by a few gay men after the Elliot Rodger incident that it's what women deserve for not sleeping with him. I asked them how many were willing to live with Jeffrey Dahmer since he claimed to kill gay guys to ensure they couldn't leave him. Of course they got all offended. Most men don't see us as actual human beings deserving of autonomy.... That's WHY they have such deep feelings of entitlement, they think they are right to feel that way since patriarchy told them in every movie they will get the girl
Having a lot of single men is dangerous for society? Alright but these men won’t be a danger to the women they will be with ? They will magically fix all their destructive patterns when they find a partner ? Instead of being a danger to the society they will be the death of a women
I can hear this image omg 🤣🤣
I get the sense that women are expected to "be the bigger person" and forgive a cheating partner to keep the family intact. I keep hearing horror stories of wives getting murdered just because the husband wants to get it somewhere else like what the actual fuck
You are right. We women should never lower our standards or compromise. Men are born for a reason and they came from a women for a reason. It’s our needs, wants and security they live for. If the truth is too hard to accept and if they want to live in the reversed truth world then we will not go along with their reversed world and always be aware of the lies incompetent men are trying to fool us into.
On top of being mentally and emotionally prepared to filter out the men you’ve described, I’m an advocate for also being physically prepared. Without going into politics, I also embrace my right to bear arms and I possess a concealed weapons permit. Additionally, I’ve joined a target practice group. Self defense in addition to filtering out and vetting men should be a priority for all women imo.
Women are expected to be the punching bags for men like this, so that they don't turn that violence on society at large. No thanks!